Men: If one of your guy friends was cheating on his wife, would you confront him & tell him to STOP?

yes. cheating on the wife is a big no no. get that **** out of the way before you get married. i would say something to him.

Why not ask her if she could find a healthier way of coping? And, figure out some ground rules to your household!! How do you know ether of you are safe with any of these strangers she is bringing to your home? Frankly, deadbolt and chain would be on at mid-night and I'd let her find somewhere else to boink the strangers. He's in Afghanistan and it's completely fu8cked up there. I think this is not something he needs to hear while at a war zone.

Guys avoid confrontation with each other and we avoid telling each other what to do. That's how fights get started and people get hurt. It would be showing him disrespect and we don't do that. So, no, I wouldn't "confront him and tell him to stop."

I would suggest to him that what he was doing was a bad idea and was only going to lead to trouble. I might bring it up again at a later time but at some point he'd give me a look or comment that he heard me and I'd drop the issue.

hello. i have been married for four years together for eight. i love my wife and three kids so much sometimes it hurts in a good way inside. if my wife ever to cheat on me it would hurt like hell but i would still rather know than live a lie. the only way they can ever have a chance of working this out is the guys wife must find out. imagine how she will feel in five years time if she were to find out that the last five years she had spent with a man who done this to her?. seriously yes the proverbial will hit the fan but whatever happens she must know, i know i would however much it hurt what we have i would not want to find out in years to come. Hope this helps you in your dilemma. if it were my best mate i would give him the chance first to come clean. but beware if he can cheat on his wife he might just say he has told her. No easy way i no but maybe he should have thought of that before he did what he did you no.

People do what they want too do. But peer pressure can help. Your husband just has too tell him, what he is doing is not right. And he is really disappointed that this man would even do this, when he has such a good wife and family.

I'm not a man but I think everyone should mind their own buisness.Stay out of it cheaters always get caught so his wife will find out soon.

It's not my place to correct someone Else's behavior. I probably wouldn't associate with them though. I would look at them as dishonest, poor character and irresponsible and that isn't the kind of friend that I would have. But as far as confronting them? That isn't my place.

I would probably speak to him about it but would leave the decision to him. It is not really my business. How do I know what is happening in their relationship?

I did, yes.

He didn't listen so I just went ahead and told his partner.

They split up soon after and no, I don't feel guilty. We are actually still mates and I can guarantee he wont do it again.

Yes. However, if he wouldn't listen to reason, I'd just mind my business.