A question for the christians?

Depends on the person.

You can tell which they mean by checking if they go to church with a tube of KY or not.

Neither. It's Agape love. It's like this.

1 Corinthians 13:1-13 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. (2) If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. (3) If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing. (4) Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. (5) It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. (6) Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. (7) It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (8) Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. (9) For we know in part and we prophesy in part, (10) but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. (11) When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. (12) Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. (13) And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

When you feel the love of Jesus it is just that, LOVE. There is no other feeling like it on Earth. If you haven't fully received Jesus please pray with all your heart a sincere prayer to Jesus admitting to Him you are a sinner. Have full faith that He died on the cross for all your sins. Accept His gift of eternal life so you will be in heaven with Him forever. I pray that God blesses you with peace. Amen.

im not christian but who would who speak that in a sexual manner. obviously they mean metaphorically.

We speak spiritually, something you know absolutely nothing about.

Neither.

I would be talking of spiritual love.

Crap joke...