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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · 1 decade ago

Caught having sex with my girlfriend...?

i thought we were alone when my girlfriend got there. We started having sex when about an hour in my mom came home from work early and she must have heard something because she came up to my room and jiggled the door knob and told me to let her in. I told her just wait a second but before i had time to hide my girlfriend and get some clothes on she got the key and came in. she looked at me first and saw i was naked and then she looked at my bed and saw my girlfriend under the covers. Then she just walked out and about a minute later i saw her pull out of the garage. I was shocked and my girlfriend got dressed and left. Then when my mom got home and didnt even look at me. Then when my dad got home she pulled him in the other room. Im writing this while they are talking. Im really nervous what should i do?

Im 15 andmy girlfriend is 16. Yes we used protection.

Update:

Well my parents called me downstairs. They told me that its the stupidest thing ive evr done. They gave me the whole what the hell were u thinking lecture and i said some stuff u guys said. But yeah they are gonna call her parents and we have to go over to her house and i have to tell them what happened. Its been 8 hours since my mom walked in and she still hasnt talked to me. We are leaving in 5 minutes to go to her house. I have a feeling its gonna get ugly. One funny thing did happen. My older brother gave me a high 5 and told me he was proud of me. So im guessing he heard my parents talking which is even more embarassing. I will give an update when i get home.

Update 2:

Well my parents called me downstairs. They told me that its the stupidest thing ive evr done. They gave me the whole what the hell were u thinking lecture and i said some stuff u guys said. But yeah they are gonna call her parents and we have to go over to her house and i have to tell them what happened. Its been 8 hours since my mom walked in and she still hasnt talked to me. We are leaving in 5 minutes to go to her house. I have a feeling its gonna get ugly. One funny thing did happen. My older brother gave me a high 5 and told me he was proud of me. So im guessing he heard my parents talking which is even more embarassing. I will give an update when i get home.

Update 3:

Well i just got bk from my girlfriends parents house. Her dad flipped out. We are not allowed to see eachother anymore. We r both grounded until august. I cant do football next season and she cant do cheerleading. No phones no computers the usual. My mom still wont talk to me. But anyway thanks for all ur help everyone. I guess we got what we deserved.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    DO IT AGAIN!!!

    GIGGIDY GIGGIDY GIGGIDY

  • Moss B
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Wow. My sincere apologies, because that situation must suck. I've never had that happen, but have had my fair share of close calls (most people have).

    Honestly, there isn't much you can do now, really, except be truthful. Your parents will probably talk to you, so just listen. Don't deny, just be truthful. Tell them that you aren't being stupid. I do wish you the best and really hope your parents are understanding. The only advice I can give you is be more careful next time! Good Luck, brother.

    Source(s): The Past.
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    not much you can do about the situation. You were caught having sex, un married, young and dumb in your parents home. You should be nervous and ashamed of your self! It is natural to have wild hormones, but having no control of them is where you are lacking in your immaturity. There is probably nothing you can do, your parents may ground you, or something, which they have every right. You had SEX in your parents home. And when they say what were you thinking

    you say i was not thinking , you were being foolish and selfish, cause all you could think about was your own needs and wants. Shame on you. You can hate me for my reply, but atleast I am one up on you, I got an education, got married, and then had sex. the way God planned it,

  • 1 decade ago

    wow.... nice job bro!

    there ain't nothin' wrong with that brother!!! just show that u r mature enough and tell them that u totally understand their feelings and what they might think!

    Dont worry about it at all, im thinking ur dad will pull u aside and start talkin' with u and might even get a little bit angry (depending on the type of ur father lol). Im not saying that it was a totally right thing to do, u r a bit young..... but as i said, if u r mature and ur parents know that, then u will be fine, if u r a type of person who's parents are looking after him all the time, then u r in trouble!

    SO, EVERYTHING DEPENDS

    Source(s): good luck brother
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  • 1 decade ago

    Admit to what was going on and be honest with them. You can't undo this situation. Your mother should not have gotten the key but, don't say that, it will make things worse. Tell them that you are being responsible and you have no intention of your relationship making their lives difficult with unexpected "problems". Or climb out the window and run away from the whole mess.

  • 1 decade ago

    well you know there going to give you the whole parenting thing and nag. but at least you used protection and what not and it's not like they caught you with i a guy no offense so it wont be as bad just hope for the best is all i can say

    Source(s): oh for the future don't bang your girl in your parents house lol bad move your moms the one who's going to trip about it the most but your dad wont trip much casue he knows he used to do stuff like that too or try to at least
  • 1 decade ago

    Just take whatever it is to come. Speak the truth that you just care for your girlfriend and things went a little too far. Just say you will use better judgment next time and save it for when you get older.

  • Kacie
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Wow. This is pretty bad. And very, very awkward....

    You need to tell them you love her and you weren't trying to disrespect them in any way. But really, theres nothing you can do. Actually, 15 is a little young anyway, so whatever they do I don't think you can say much to them.

    Hope this helps. :)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What can you say just say that you didn't plan

    to do it but when you was necking both of you just

    got carried away and your sorry.just take the punishment like a boy.i am sure they will contact

    the girls parents so your romance is over.

    Source(s): if you cum in her you have other problems
  • 1 decade ago

    tell ur parents the truth im tryin 2 type fast cos u wrote this 2 mins ago and ur writing as they speak so tell them u luv her and it was innocent sex and ur not sleeping around or anything u shudve introduced her to ur family first or mayb u did. just say u like her very much

  • 1 decade ago

    If they start yelling, just sit there and let them get it all out. If they ask for an explanation, jsut tell them the truth. And tell them you used protection, it might comfort them a little.

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