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? asked in HealthMen's Health · 1 decade ago

What do you guy and girls think?

what do you guys and girls have to say about girls that lose their virginity's at 13?

And what do you think about guys losing it at 13?

Update:

by the way im 27 its just so many guys pressure girls and they always get called whores and yet guys are thought of as cool so i was just wondering

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    Just one thing:

    They are not responsable.

    I mean, 13 years?!!!

    WTF, can't they wait?!

    The same for girls and guys

  • 1 decade ago

    well,

    legally/correctly: speaking that is not right and u both are under-aged ok. And i think u need 2 keep the relationship simple 4 now until ur minds and bodies are ready.

    modernly/ teen point of view: teens don't seam 2 be following orders anymore and even if u tell them no they go an do it anyway. so what i think if the 13 year olds think they are ready and can handle the responsibilities that come with it then, make sure u use protection cause Aids and STDs ant the only things u can contract STIs out there 2.

    and hope u enjoy it cause i lost mine at 13 too but it was taken away from me i never got the chance 2 cherish the moments.

    hope i help at least a little... have a wonderful day.

  • 1 decade ago

    When I was 13, all I wanted to do was have sex! But I never got around to it. 14...worse. It took years. And then you start thinking there must be something wrong with you because you haven't lost it.

    I was 19 when I lost my virginity! And if your looking for a recommendation, mine is wait! It was so worth waiting! My ex didn't wait. And that kinda disgusted me, thinking about all the guy she had been with. I accepted it because if I had had the chance I would have done the same thing, but I didn't really respect her like I should have, and its because of her sexual past. You will be respected WAY more if you hold out until you find that someone special! Whatever age that is! And if it doesn't work out with them, so what! Move on. The next person will still respect you for waiting until you thought you had the one.

    Source(s): Personal Experience.
  • 1 decade ago

    I think its a huge mistake. People who start having sex that young are much more likely to get into other bad things earlier, like drugs and alcohol, and teen pregnancy. They'll also likely have more bad experiences with sex and have a harder time understanding the relationship between sex and love. And every person I've ever met who had sex younger than say, 16, has said they regretted it and wished they had waited.

    And the thought of a 13 year old boy (or girl) having sex makes me really freaking grossed out. You guys are little kids, for chrissake!

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  • The guys are lucky.

    I can't say anything about the girls who lose it at 13 because it doesn't mean they're sluts, theres a lot more that goes into a person being a slut than losing virginity early.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well im 14 and a guy or girl losing it at 13 is kinda too early and i know they say u should do it after ur married but there is no fcking way im doing that im waiting atleast till im 16

  • 1 decade ago

    um 13 is kinda young but personally i wouldn't care just as long as he is responsible and knows what he's doing

    as for the girl i think we should wait becuz guys r guy and all they wanna do at teen age is have sex an then move on but girls take it way more personaly and build feelings for the guy.

    Source(s): jst me
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    it depends,if you are in love its a different story.i never pressured a girl for me it was a more of a discussed decision.

  • 1 decade ago

    13 is not too young..its all about how u take it both mentally and physically.

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm a girl, personally I think that in either case it's way too soon.

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