Pregnant, Stressed and Alone?

"out of sight out of mind" (if you don't see him, don't think about him ok!).you have a very powerful situation(a true miracle) going on in your body so" mommy up"! and don't be loving no man who doesn't love you.value yourself and that precious,innocent baby.peace is all you need now.if you stress, your baby will be crying all the time when he or she comes because you were unhappy.give the angel a chance at peace PLEASE!!.

WOW, was I in your situation, except he left me long before I was 31 weeks.

Forget him. That whole "it's what's best" nonsense is just that -- nonsense. It's him not wanting to man up to his responsibilities, and frankly, you nor your child need that. And trust me, you don't need to be stressing out right now!! Too much of it can contribute to high blood pressure, hypertension, and possibly preeclampsia. I had a sudden onset of preeclampsia when I was 33wks 5d, and I had my little boy that night via emergency c-section because my blood pressure was so high, and one of the contributors may very well have been stress.

PLEASE don't stress over this, let him be an immature pig and move on. Think of the little one inside you and decide what's best for him/her...I know it's alot easier said than done, trust me, but really, when you think of your baby's well-being when you're not stressed out, and the fact that keeping your baby in as long as possible is the most important thing right now, all of that will go away. I wish I had done the same sooner, but I did it too late...

Good luck with everything, seriously! Congrats on your little one, and again, forget that loser...he may come around eventually when he realizes he's having a child. And if that doesn't happen, just know you and your child are better off.

i couldnt imagine being in your postion. that is aweful. but its his fault as much is yours. why would you have a baby with him after being with him just a few months? and now look hes done ran off with another girl. i been with my fiance for 4 yrs and we are just now talkin about having babies. he wants this more then i do. i wanted to talk about it before i ended up getting pregnant so he doesnt do what yours did and run for the door. thats wrong. a person that loves you no matter what would of stuck by your side thur thick and thin...and would of never walked out and found someone else. forget him. move on. find someone who will help support you. how old are you? did you guys even live together and have a house and stuff? i hope so. if not that was a total no no.

If this man left you when you're in your third trimester, he's a complete @sshole. Just think of it this way--if he's doing this to you, imagine what kind of a sh!tty father he would have been. Do you REALLY want someone like him helping raise your child?

Plenty of women have been very successful, single parents. You can do it, and you won't be alone for ever. You have family and friends to offer you moral support, advice, babysitting, etc. Just make sure you take him to court to get child support. While he's not enough of a real man to support you physically/mentally/emotionally, I imagine the U.S. court system will think otherwise when it comes to monetary support.

i wouldnt know what to do, loves complicated but hes not a man at all. stepping up to the plate and supporting the woman thats about to have your child would be a man, but not this guy... hes just a dick

If todays your 1 year and you're 31 weeks then you hardly knew him before you got pregnant! Just as much your fault as it is his, you should have actually used your head before opening your legs.

wow sorry to hear just try not 2 worry it is going to be very hard u don't a jerk like that anyway who would just abandon there girl in there child