Is it wrong for me to do it as well?

you've been cheated on. why in the world would you want to stoop to his level AND MORE IMPORTANTLY...why would you want to be THE OTHER WOMAN? you should know better than that. LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND. and LEAVE THE OTHER LADY'S HUSBAND ALONE.

How can you not be mad at this guy? he has cheated on you twice...that you know of. Obviously he doesn't feel bad about this. If that were the case, he would have only done it once..and never again. but you said the first time you found out "they broke up" Does that mean that he was actually in a relationship with her? Not just sex one time? because if so, he will just keep cheating. And that has been proven. He is obviously not happy, for whatever reason. And neither are you. You may love him, but you are not happy. Because you are doing the same thing he is. When someone goes outside their marriage, even just to TALK to the opposite sex, it is because they are missing something from their relationship. Do you really want to keep getting hurt by him? I suggest marriage counseling. If he is even willing to fix this problem. If he can't stop cheating then you don't need to be with him. I'm sorry this happened to you. I hope you two can work things out.

I hate to say this, but if you stay in this relationship, your husband will keep cheating. Forever. Is that something you want to wake up to 5 or 6 years from now? What if you have a family? Do you want your children to see that happen? If they do, they'll grow up to be just like the two of you - either cheaters, or enablers.

It is absolutely wrong of you to see another man. Two wrongs don't make a right. Plus, all the pain your husband is causing you - this other married guy is doing to his wife. You're letting it happen, and you have the power to make it all stop.

Also, you say "I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him." Well, if you loved your husband that much, you wouldn't want to be with anyone else. It sounds like you just like being married. Or doted upon.

Get out of the marriage - it's never going to get better. Don't cheat on your husband, and even after you get divorced, don't be a homewrecker. If you and the new guy are so into each other, let him get a divorce too. Then start seeing each other legitimately.

Yes. You are lowering yourself to his standards. You're fighting fire with fire - in this instance, that doesn't work. Take away what he did to you and what do you have? You cheating - so it is still wrong. Don't stoop to his level. Your heart isn't in it as much as you think you love him, because you have seen something in this other guy. Your husband sounds like a douchebag. What is better for you - staying with him because you love him and have a very unhappy marriage with no trust, or take the big leap and get rid of him and start again? Ask yourself if he is worth this hurt he is doing to you.

Its always wrong to cheat and if you still love him after that you need to have a serious talk with him. Let him know that you cant trust him anymore but that you still love him and that you want to work things out. If he cheated on you twice in a years span then he obviously cant control himself. Maybe he wants to but isnt strong enough. And dont worry i dont think your cheating on him if your talking to someone, although you could be creeping up on it because although its not sex, if your conversations are intimate then thats no good. I hope you guys work things out.

Your marriage is obviously a piece of crap. He's cheating on you... and you're thinking of cheating on him. You guy's need serious counseling if you want to mend this marriage. Personally?? Cheating is a deal breaker for me.... your husband obviously does not love or respect you... otherwise he would never have cheated on you. Now, you don't have much respect for him either....because your entertaining the "revenge" cheat to get back at him. No love in this marriage.... it's just a piece of crap.

How did it make you feel when you found out he cheated on you?

Two wrongs don't make a right but honestly from what you have said sounds like your "birds of a feather" and the vows you made means nothing to either one of you.

Let me ask you this. If your husband killed someone would it be ok for you to do the same?? Your stooping to his level. You feel its wrong for him to cheat but yet your going to as well? Why don't yall talk about an open relationship if you want to keep this marriage going. The path yall are taking isn't going to anything but drive yourselves farther apart.

Just talking to him isn't cheating. And who cares? Yes...two wrongs don't make it right, but your hubby cheated on you TWICE. I'd leave my husband after that.

Sorry but i think this is not the right thing ,justtry and solve the problems you have rather than putting more problem to it.

Just do what is right but i think gal u deserve better than a cheating husband