Why do girls say one thing but in real life act on something completely different?

If you are as what people say you are: exciting, fun, confident, successful..then you would not be acting this way.

It doesn't matter if you are heavy.

Good or bad looks only go so far.

A confident guy doesn't let anything affect him to the point of being fed up, he keeps going no matter what the results are, because he is confident to know he will succeed.

You need to relax, buddy, your inner turmoil will only cause you mishaps and it will be seen by other people.

Confidence is a mindset.

You do something that you believe in even if the consequences will be bad for you.

You stand up for what you believe in.

So, girls play mind-games and play around with words, big deal.

If you do not want them to play games, then put your foot down and say you go no time for it.

Girls are illogical like you said.

They say one thing but do opposite.

Girls operate more on the emotional level, so they go by what they feel is right even if its a last-minute change.

I think when you find a girl friend she will be a very good person. You are obviously not happy with your appearance and you are doing something about it, and it will be good for your health to loose weight. You will be more confident and will be stronger as a result. When you are young being physically attractive to a potential partner is very important, even if you think it is shallow it is a fact. So stick with your diet and be yourself and look forward to the future. Good luck

Well, just keep exercising an being healthy, and eventually you'll find someone that is attracted to you and wants to be with you.

I don't mind a guy being chubby, but I always have issues with guys being overweight and unhealthy.

But other than that, I think that you shuld be fine in the long run and you'll find someone who's attracted to you and will like you for you, and not your looks. lots of girls need to realize that looks really don't matter. it's really ALL about being attracted to a person's personality. being attracted to someone is important, but you have to focus more on the personality rather than looks.

I did that for a long time, and all the good looking guys turned out to be perverted rapists.

It might matter depending on how fat you are, like if you are over 220 then that could be a turn off for alot of girls, then again all girls are different. And to answer your title.....not just girls are like that, alot of people say 1 thing but act on another.

Well buddy your not alone, but for the last 5 days I've been on a diet and excising.. Its very boring but it maybe good for future.. Soo anyway yes you can get a girl easily. You just have to have a good face=) and have a extremely good personality.

I have come to the conclusion that most women are superficial and shallow. Hypocrisy is a funny thing and it kinda makes you lose trust in everything eh? Girls do this because...what's pleasing to the eye is pleasing to the mind. Sadly, I don't have a solution but that's the reason.

I got to know one of my teachers really well and she was so much different from in the classroom. She liked the same music as me and she cussed and let me cuss, it was so cool to realize that she was almost exactly like me but 22 years older. in class she was always kinda strict but around me she was less uptight. She was my teacher last year and we still talk alot

If someone truely likes you the weight wont be an issue