Appropriate wording for invitation?

Hi. Since these will be mailed out PRIOR to the actual wedding, I would still use your maiden name and include a little note at the bottom. Here is an example:

Sarah Jo Thompson

and

Brian Edward Smith

invite you to celebrate with them

at a brunch reception to honor their marriage

Saturday, the seventeenth of October

Two thousand nine

Eleven o'clock in the morning

Golf Shores Country Club

111 Golf Shores Drive

Tampa, Florida

Sarah and Brian will be married in a private

ceremony on October 10, 2009 in Las Vegas

Just an idea....hope this helps!

Jane Smith and Andrew Jones

were married in a private ceremony

Saturday, the eleventh of July

two thousand nine

Las Vegas, Nevada

The pleasure of your company

is requested at a brunch reception

to celebrate their union

Saturday, the eighteenth of July

two thousand nine

eleven o'clock in the morning

Eleanor's Restaurant

Cape May, New Jersey

please respond by the thirteenth of July

Here is one way to word your reception only wedding invitation.

Mr. and Mrs. Carl Redd Verde

request the pleasure of your company

at the Wedding Reception for their daughter

Violet Blue

and

Mr. Albe Gooden Tuxed

Saturday, the sixth of September

two thousand and eight

eight o'clock in the evening

The March and Vow Hotel

450 South Raymond Avenue

Ringfinger, California

please join us on september 12, 2009 for a brunch reception to celebrate our september 9 wedding.