What color wedding dress to wear with a white tux?

My fiance is going to wear a white tux. He will be 30 by the time we get married next year and is a virgin, so I think he has every right to wear his white tux. Here's the problem. I hate the color white on me. I don't like ivory either but I HATE white. And he wants stark white too. So...I can't wear ivory and look horrible in stark white. I want pale, pale pink but I can't find a pink light enough. blush pink is still too dark. Can someone PLEASE help me! I've absolutely hated finding a wedding dress and to now find one in a color makes me hate it even more. This is by FAR the worst part of planning to me and its starting to stress me out. What colors will look right with stark white?