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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsWeddings · 1 decade ago

Ok i know this might be wrong to ask but..?

ok i know this might be wrong to ask but im really just wondering. How many times do you and your partner do "it" a week. I just want to know what is normal and what is too much. Thanks =]

Whats a good amount :]

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I have to quantify it monthly! I'd say about 2-6 times a month. We both work full time, I get up early, he stays up late, so mostly our opportunities are on the weekends!

    We're both comfortable with that amount, though, and that's what's important. How often you "do it" is something between you and your partner, and there's no right or wrong amount.

    My husband and I are absurdly happy in our marriage. Cuddly, cute, affection, all that mush. One couple we're good friends with, who are also absurdly happy, also don't have sex terribly often (they both work weird schedules). So, happiness and high libido don't necessarily go hand in hand. What's important is that you're both comfortable and satisfied. =)

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    4-5 times

  • Gidget
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Depends on the week and what's going on. We average 4-5 times but have been as low as 1-2 a week and as high as 8-9 a week.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, we get busy sometimes twice or more a day to only 4 times a week we have been together for 3yrs and he is 20 yrs older than me, but we still fit each others style and wants. I think that is the key matching up wanting it as much as the other and being ok just going to bed when you don't.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Wow that's an random question. But I am wanting to answer. Me and my husband do it once or twice a week. We have been together for five years so sometimes we have to do stuff to make it exciting and fun. Look I have a ton of married friends and most do it as much as I do and if other people get it more, hey they are really lucky or extremely unlucky I don't know. But the average I would say through experience and through talking to other people would be once or twice a week.

  • 1 decade ago

    4 times a week.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Been together 12 years. He feels like it about once a month. Twice if I am lucky. He is only 33. Complains about being tired and overworked, unless one of his friends/brothers/cousins call and then he has plenty of energy.lol

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    well you have to both want to and both be able to. id say normal is 2-3 times a week :)

  • 1 decade ago

    ok um mm there is no certain amount of times to do it it depends on your and your partners sex drive and when you both want it

  • 1 decade ago

    Sex isn't a competition. The frequency for one couple might not work for another couple. What matters is the love and tenderness from the act of sex. Enjoy!

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