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Anonymous asked in Pregnancy & ParentingParenting · 1 decade ago

Parents is this wrong? Would you be mad? Advice?

Ok so i am 19 and ermm a friend that is a boy and well he is 15 and well ermm the other night i was watching him for his parents. And ermm one thing led to another and we had sex and he called today he called me and told me he feels connected to me and that he feels like he is in love with me. And well i have felt in love with him for months and i know this is wrong or what not. And i can not help how i am feeling and i do now know what to do. His parents would kill me and i do not want them mad at me or anything i am not sure what to do. And i am scared about his parents but at the same time i love him and i know i shouldn't but i am not sure what to do. Advice?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    lol. well you sure got yourself in a mess didn't you? hello misses Robinson. just kidding. listen. all that stuff about one thing lead to another. that's not going to work. you know what you did.

    i had times in my life where i could have lost my virginity, but you know what i did? walked away. because it was wrong and we both was too young.

    but in today's time it was the average age. 16, 14, i said no. i keep getting the fast women. who just want to play.

    and yes one thing went to another, but i didn't let that keep happening. i said we can't do this. and it stopped. it's easy to say no we can't do this.

    but anyways... yes, you should be more then worried. if you and him don't get along anymore or something goes wrong. he could say something. i'm not sure how you could fix this mess. if anything just make sure it never happens again.

    and hell.. any 15 year old would love to score with a 19yr old chick. i know i would if i was 15 again. but it's the older persons job to say something like we can't do this.

    and stop before you get ahead of yourself. i might not be a parent yet but i have to say. where is your common sense girl?

    seriously.. i'm 24, and when i was 19, all the ages i went through did i ever lose myself. look i know it probably felt good to you. but you just can't do that.

    if i was the parent i would be furious about it. i'd know my son couldn't help it. but i would definitely say this to you. come near my son again and i'll call the police on the spot. don't even want to hear your name, i don't want to ever see you.

    and teach my son it's not right to go with women who are 18 and up. for it'll get them in trouble and if they can't have the senses to say no. you must.

    and if it was my son it would have never happened. because he would have known better. and i wouldn't just about leave my son with a 19 yr old girl. not even a 19 yr old boy. family only. grandparents, etc. FAMILY.

    so it's not really all the blame on you. i'd blame the parents thinking nothings going to happen. i mean seriously what you think is going to happen 15yr old boy, 19yr old girl?

    Source(s): common sense.
  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    I think you are and you aren't.... I think you are because your right, you know what's going to happen and what's not, and you know how teenagers are and what's going to happen at that age. Also because teenagers do it rather their parents say yes or no. I'm not sure I would have told her sex gets fun and you can't wait to have eventually, she's just 15.But everyone in high school is having sex and thinks it's fun. But as you can see there are a lot of teenage mothers too, And about protection... using a condom doesn't always help, I mean you can still get pregnant with a condom. So in a way you may should have told her to wait, of course not a lot of teenagers do, but still it is the right thing to do. Maybe not even marriage but at least until she knows that he is ''the one'' and she is capable of doing it and whatever happens, happens. Because you wouldn't want her to do it and think it's fun, and then get pregnant at 15 now would you? Not saying your wrong.. I would just be careful what you say...And you are right , rather your mom wants it to happen or not it eventually is, but maybe not in high school you know. So any ways I hope this helps

  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I don't really see why a 15 year old boy would need a babysitter, especially a 19 year old one. But, yes...I would be mad. Yes, it was wrong! You need to back off. You could be arrested, really! If they want you to "watch" him again, tell them that you are too close in age for you to feel comfortable doing that. I have a 16 year old girl, and a 13 year old boy. If, when the boy is 15, this happened, I would probably report the 19 year old adult.

  • 1 decade ago

    A 19 year old to watch a 15 year old. WTF? When I 'watch' my neighbours 15 year old it requires leaving the back door open in case he needs anything and making sure hoards of teenage boys don't come to the house. What did they need you to do for him bath him and put him to bed? It sounds like this 15 year old is mentally even younger than 15 which makes what you did not only illegal but seriously messed up!

    Would I be mad? Yes I would be seriously demented to let a 19 year old 'babysit' a 15 year old.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What is "ermm"??? You know a nervous speech habit does not need to be reflected while typing. How did you pass your English classes? And stop sleeping with little boys. That's disgusting.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well, its against the law, I assume. I know the age of consent varies but its 16 here, so its statutory rape what you did and his parents could press charges. Just keep that in mind.

  • sully
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    For one thing in UK its against the law. I wouldn't be too happy if I were the boys parents. When your babysitting you are the adult in charge.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Well, If I were the parents I would probably calmly look at the situation, take into acount that you both love eachother and then I would call the police and have your pedophile *** arrested and sent to jail

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dumb *** why are you sleeping with little boys? That's sick and if you did that to my son your *** would be sent to prison in a heart bear.

  • 1 decade ago

    you may give it a few years it illegal more than anything

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