to whom shud i marry?a bachelor not loving guy or an already?

Do not marry anyone who is married and do not marry anyone who does not love you. Therefore you should drop both these guys and look for someone who is a single eligible bachelor who loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. The guys you've mentioned should be cut-off from the list of your suitors... bad choice.

None of them. What's the hurry? Forget about the married man. They always give you the same story until they got you. Those story about married men getting divorce is b.s. If this mean does not wants to be with his wife he would had done already. In my own opinion, wait until you find the right guy that love you, not just pretend. I think you should be studyng and pay more attention on other thing. Go out with your friends, enjoy while you are single and forget about these two guys.

I agree with what everyone else said. it is NEVER a good idea to date a married person. They are using you for whatever they are missing in their married life and you are expendable. When they get what they need from you (sex, emotional needs or whatever) they will drop you like a load of bricks. It is so much easier fro him to dump you than it is to get divorced. I know your heart is open and he seems like a great guy. But, he is using you.

Please dump this loser, tell his wife that he is a sleazeball and move on to eligible bachelors.

no you shouldn't date him for multiple reasons= --he's already got a girlfriend and you wouldn't want to start any problems with her --your rep would suffer cuz ur tryin to steal some guys man, at least that's what it would look like --lets speak hypothetically, say you did go out wit him & he broke up wit his chick to make it official wit you, how do you know that he won't change his mind & do that same to you? --you deserve better than some guy who has s girlfriend but is also willing to date you on the down low so that his girl don't find out --considering the face that you said he's never been single, it seems to me that he's a player. do you really want to date one?

They never divorce the wife. Just a lie they tell you so you stick around.

Move on. Try for the bachelor.

grow up!! he will NEVER divorce his wife for you.he's only saying that so that you'll stay and continue to be his plaything. people like him are never serious about what they say. as for the one who's pretending to love you, he's not serious either. you are really immature to believe that either one of them will actually marry you. to them you are nothing but a plaything. so GROW UP and find someone will take you seriously.

ok you are hanging with a married man strike one. you would think about getting married to someone you dont love strike two. you felt the need to ask a question like this and didnt know what to do strike three

They never divorce the wife. Your the sort of girl he wants to f*ck, not the sort of girl he wants to take home for moms approval. Marraige wrecker. S*ut. Wh*re.

he's MARRIED, idiot. now I see why so many women get taken advantage of, because some of you are so freaking retarded. do you have to be TOLD that a man will say ANYTHING to get into your pants? WHATEVER NEEDS TO BE SAID, WE WILL SAY IT. the question is, are you STUPID enough to believe it? he's married, he doesn't love you, he wants a roll (or two) in the hay. did I make it simple enough for you?

well let's look at it the way it really is.

there are only 2 men on this earth. you have to marry one of them.

were you born that stupid or did you work hard to get that way