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Should I send this message to my ex?! PLZ, PLZ HELP!?
For more info of situation, see previous question asked. Here we go:
"I'd hope that we can be perfectly honest with each other, considering we are both adults and that we were at one time intimate. So abandoning all pretense and practicality, I'd like you to be perfectly honest with me about something. Did you try to get a hold of me because you still care about me, or was it simply a friendly gesture? I would appreciate your absolute honesty. I was quite truthfully, very confused by your actions. Obviously we are in two different states right now, but forgoing what is "practical" about that situation, do you still have feelings?
I will be utterly honest with you: I'm in no way in denial that we are not together. I accepted that truth long ago. However, I still do care very deeply for you and I still feel as though you are a very special, beautiful, person. Even though I have let go of what could have been, I still care. I have not met another like you, and though I have been with several others, I have never felt for them what I have felt for you. Take these truisms for what they are, an honest confession.
I realize that you are very busy now, but I would greatly appreciate your response, when you have the time. I believe it would help me have some clarity."
Should I send this and go the honest route, or continue playing "hard to get" like I just don't care?!
I was thinking an email or FB message. Too long for a txt. But should I send?
4 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Play the honest route if you want her back. Hard to get is when someone screws you over or when you're not sure about a crush.
- RossJuliaLv 41 decade ago
It is true that by sending the text and you will let her know that you are still in love with her (which i think she does know) and wants a firm committment from her part. But it could also backfire in the sense that you might be hastening her and that is what she might be having problem with and does not want to committ at the moment. i would suggest instead that you let her know that you still love her but with no pressure nor strings attached and continously let her know of your love and care for her. Didnt i say that the higher degree of love is sacrifice. But these are my views and i am not in your shoes. You will have to make your decision.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
That's too long for a text...Try to shorten it by a few paragraphs
Sorry! For some reason i saw "text". Slow moment. I was like, are you serious?
Haha yeah. Go ahead and send this. This is a little long, but if a guy spent that much time to write something to me, I would feel special.
Go for it!
- 1 decade ago
I would go the honest route Its better. I wouldnt FB message it coz other people could see it. But i think its good, and if she doesnt xare telling her this may help you let go.
Good luck
