I cheated on my current gf with my ex. We were tlking about marrige now she wants me out of her life.?

Wow this is a hard one I have only cheated twice in my life and I just am getting over the fact that I was in high school (I kissed another guy) . I still feel bad till this day about it. Look I cant tell u she will come back cus she may never come back. thats the price u pay when u play the cheating game. Trust is very serious when u have u may take in for granted but once its gone u may never get it back fully.

if u are sorry tell her u are sorry.answer every question even if u know it will hurt her tell her u want to make it up to her and that u didnt realize what u had in front of you. tell her u are sorry for disrespecting her. tell her that u dont have communication with the girl anymore and if she tells you to go to that hoe then tell her that u dont want her it was lust and not love.tell that u would spend a lifetime trying to fix ur mistake cus your relationship means more to u then some dumb slut.

then give her time. some women r just the forgiving type. and some will hold a grudge till the grave. pray that she has mercy on ur soul

if she does not take u back. Then u will have learn a valuable lesson the next time you have a keep you will do just that keep her.

Tell her that you made a stupid mistake and ask her to give you a chance like a couple of months together again so she can see you've changed. Do something special; buy her a gift, write her an apology letter, something like that. Make a big effort and she'll realize you truly are sorry. Tell her no one means anything more than she does to you and you feel horrible at the idea of losing her. Tell her all you need is one more go and you'll make her see that you made an error last time and really need to make it up to her.

My husband cheated on me, and I have to tell you it was one of the most humiliating experiences I've ever been through. The person I thought I could trust above anyone else in the world lied to me and did the one thing I asked him never to do.

We had been married for a little over 5 years at the time, and we have a history that goes back over 30 years, I wasn't about to give him up without a fight.

However I have to be honest with you. If he did this to me before we were married or even engaged, it would have been over. You were in your trial period and you blew it. Even if she takes you back, I don't know if she will ever be able to trust you again. My husband bent over backwards to make sure I knew exactly where he was at all times...called as soon as he got done from work, called me at work to let me know if he was going to be gone when I got home, etc. We also went to a marriage counselor for about 6 months, which helped us both tremendously.

I know my husband cheated because we were both miserably unhappy with our lives and our marriage. He thought our marriage was over anyway and figured when I found out about the affair, I'd just end it. I think you may have had the affair because you two had been talking about marriage and that kind of commitment scared the living crap out of you, so you ran the opposite direction. Now you've seen the consequences of your actions and you feel like you can't live without her.

If you can honestly say you've never cheated before and you will never cheat again, then tell her you will do anything she asks to make it up to her. I strongly suggest that you go to see a couples/marriage counselor to help you both get through this difficult time.

Well, you're pretty stupid but I think you already knew that.

But really, I don't blame your now ex-gf. She did the right thing and stood up for herself. She obviously respects herself and knows her worth. It sucks but it's a lesson learned for you. Even if she does take you back, she will NEVER look at you the same again and will always wonder what you're up to.

Move on and remember how it feels to lose someone you truly love. Next time, you might actually make the right choice when temptation presents itself.

you will no longer have a prayer getting your gf back till you paintings out why you felt the might desire to cheat on her consisting of your ex. additionally, why you instructed her which you cheated (once you are the only that instructed). as quickly as you're honest with your self approximately what you probably did, you'll be able to understand which you're no longer emotionally waiting for yet another relationship on the grounds which you're no longer relatively over your ex yet. extremely of attempting to get your gf back, you'll be able to desire to severely take it slow to paintings on your self and recover from your ex as quickly as and for all. perchance to you it exchange into basically intercourse, or an attempt to get closure on the outdated relationship, yet to your gf and any woman, it is the purest form of betrayal that a guy can do. the only component that makes a pair particular is they are the only ones having intercourse with one yet another. you place your gf contained in the comparable boat as your ex, and took away what made her sense particular and enjoyed with the help of you. HOW might you undo that? it incredibly is the question! First, paintings on your subject concerns, and wish which you would be able to tutor to your gf which you will on no account, ever, ever try this lower back. That she merits greater helpful, and do distinctive kissing up, procuring supplies, even though it takes to persuade her that it exchange into the worst mistake of your existence, and not in any respect properly worth dropping her for.

Are you sorry? Then why'd you do it in the first place? Face it, you thought to get away with it and you didn't, and now your gf is smart enough to toss you out the door. Once a cheat, always a cheat. She can never trust you again. Every time you go out the door she'd be wondering where you're going and with whom... no wife can live that way and remain sane.

I wouldn't marry a cheater, and kudos to your gf for setting her standards high.

Maybe your ex will take you in.

Put yourself in her shoes. You betrayed her trust. If you want her back, it's going to take time, it won't happen overnight. You have to show her that you won't do it again, and that she can trust you. Plus, you will have to cut all strings attached to your ex. Because if she does end up taking you back, if she knows you are still talking to your ex, she will worry that you will cheat again. It may take months before she comes around, IF she ever does.

Thats gonna be difficult. The best way is to tell her you are sorry and give her a reason to believe that you will not do it again. You sure you dont want the ex back?

She sounds like a smart girl. You clearly do not love her enough or care about her feelings enough if you cheated on her. I hope she stays smart and doesn't give you another chance.

You don't deserve her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You're nothing but $h1t on the bottom of her shoe. Move on and grow up.