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Still worried about me being prego!!!?
I want a baby now & he wants 2 wait 3 yrs. If dats da case we shud use condoms. he doesnt wanna wear it, now i may b prego. im happy & ready 4 da stress etc, but i kno he isnt. (even tho he says hes happy i doubt it) he says it must b a 2 parent home (neither of us had a 2 parent home. his dad was/is an @ss) how will i know if hes ready? any signs or tips would help! thanx
this is the net i can write anyway i want! im college educated if u must "kno".. jerk
thank you every1 4 ur answers. I'm not forcing a baby on him. could u ppl say he were forcing me not to have a baby? no u wudnt say that so stop thinking 1 sided. but thanx again
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
to me if he wanted to really wait he would have taken the precautions and wore a condom but he didnt so therefore hes gotta suffer with whatever happens and man up and be a dad doesnt matter if hes not ready or not he got himself into this now he has to deal with it.
- Pixie_MummyLv 51 decade ago
I do not think you should have a baby with him if he doesn't want one. It's entrapment really.
I also think you need to think a bit more maturely about having a baby. You may think it is stress that you can deal with, but imagine if your guy left you because you were trying to get pregnant. There's nothing stopping you from withholding sex until he uses condoms, or taking the pill yourself.
Maybe you should find someone who wants a baby, rather than forcing it on a guy that isn't ready.
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He is forcing you not to have a baby? Well leave him then and like I said, find someone who does want one. Having a baby is a 2 sided decision and if you know he doesn't want one do you not think it is unfair to try to have one? A mature person would not do that.
And fair enough he hasn't wore condoms so if you are pregnant then he has to step up to the plate and admit it is his fault as much as yours.
Good Luck
- mandyLv 41 decade ago
if he doesnt want a baby and doesnt want to wear condoms then maybe you need to find a smarter boyfriend because this guy sounds like an idiot.
- maccrew6Lv 61 decade ago
HE sounds like an idiot?? No, the person posting this question sounds like an idiot.... WTH.. "prego"?? "da" stress?? Good lord child, please do NOT reproduce until you gain command of the English language.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
well if you are pregnant, then he needs to take responsibility & grow up. he didnt want to wear a condom then that was his fault. sex, especially UNPROTECTED sex, caused pregnancy. he should know that.
