my girl friend and i have been living together for nine years we have a child together i love her?

just be happy that you see her each day! If she was gone then you would be hurting more than you are now.

She needs to grow up and face the reality of whats in front of her. Im going through something similar. Im sorry for how you must feel.

at least she loves you.. give her some space... and reevaluate if you really need her or if its just your ego talking.. non one likes rejection... but sometimes its better for us in the long run.

Bring someone home and bone her in your bed. If she gets "upset", tell her "You told me you were not quit in love with me."

Give her space and prepare for it to be permanent. Sorry!

you have a child together so you may want to stick it out a few more years with her.

That's sad. I guess you should give her space and find someone nicer than her who loves you.

try to find out why she says so...

by your getting worried, you will not tbe able to think positively. instead try and find out the reason and possible solutions to the problem

It means you need to find another girlfriend.

Move on