Did your significant other change after you had the baby?

my hubby has been working more and going out as often as before. even went out the night before i came home from hospital so i packed up my own hospital bag while he lay on my bed, and then he went to bed when we got home. not what i was expecting as he used to stay up reading to my bump while pregnant. tho i think part of the problem is that i am more sensitive due to hormones and things that are acceptable pre baby aren't always after baby, but men being juvenial don't realise straight off. you're not alone

My boyfriend changed right before I gave birth. He tried to go out alot with his twin and his friends. I really demanded he drop all of his so called female friends if he wanted to make our relationship work. Maybe you should ask your boyfriend if he rather miss out on your childs life by hanging out with people less important or be there for everything little thing that pops up in your childs life? See what he says and make a judgement from there. They usually realize that they dont want to miss out on those precious moments, if their really serious bout having a baby and being committed to you and your child.

In my personal opinion if he goes out a lot there is a very little possibility that he would be home all the time just because of the baby. But if you want to be home try to make it peaceful and don't put presion on him because that way for sure he will be out.

my fiance is at work from 11am to about 9 pm and always comes straight home. maybe once evry month or so he will go out with friends. he has 1 close friend of the opposite sex (who is maried and has a kid ofher own) she was actually in the delivery room with us when i gave birth so i dont mind when he hangs out with her even if it is just the 2 of them

acceptable after the toddler replaced into born, i might say it made us lots closer. As time has long previous on, it has made us choose the flow aside some (my toddler is 11 months previous). i think of we are nonetheless attempting to paintings out time for ourselves (at the same time and separate) and not feeling in charge approximately leaving the toddler. we are additionally dealing with a puzzling section with toddler waking continuously and likewise wakign at 5 AM and not desirous to circulate lower back to mattress. we are the two exhausted and haven't any time for ourselves - we the two paintings complete-time and are wiped out by utilising 9 PM. We do tend to get annoyed with one yet another greater truthfully now, yet we additionally say sorry and communicate approximately our emotions greater desirable than till now. i assume we experience we might desire to make an further attempt by way of toddler. i'm hoping it quite is in basic terms a factor by way of fact we quite need to get lower back to our "couple time".

I almost don't want to say this.. but he maybe cheating on you... tell him how you fell and if he fights it and REALLY wants to "hang out" with these girls alone... then he just maybe cheating... I know this guy who just had a baby with his girlfriend and then all of a sudden for some weird reason all the girls wanted him????? and he was going for it... ugh... so watch out.. I DONT KNOW YOUR MAN..SO I CANT BE 100% SHUR... good luck!!!

stayed with me and the baby 24/7 til barely yesterday he realized he needs to start working.

he slightly changed hahah

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