What do men think of their wives after she has a baby?

there is an episode of the HBO series "Entourage" where one of the characters is watching his actress girlfriend do a make-out scene with his a friend of his and he says to another friend "ya know how when a guy sees his wife give birth he doesn't want to f*** her anymore? that's what this is like." All of the pain and sometimes unpleasent images of the pain of labor can stick with a person not used to seeing unpleasant things. then when considering having sex again, he can't help but remember the pain you went through and the fact that all of those things that are now scary to him happened with that part of your body; to him your vagina now carries somewhat of a negative connotation.

i'm not 100% sure, but i'm darn near. i am almost positive that is the reason.

CHEATER! or he was like my man and just plane lazy and an asshole!! He changes but it took him almost a year and a half. We went through a lot of **** together to say the least. But He never said i couldn't read his phone or check it. I know he would never cheat on me. But I really hated the porn and the video games.

Tell him its time to grow up and step up to be a father. Enough boy things!

If he cannot change for you and his baby. Then it;s time for you to ask your self. Do I really want to take care of two children right now? Should I really have to put up with this? And Do I want to stay with a BOY who act;s like he has no responsibility's and doesn't care about you or your son enough to be a better father/lover/friend/ Person??? I wouldn't And i didn't... I broke up with my boyfriend at the time, and he came running back b.c he realized how much he needed me, how much he really loved me. And never did any of those things again. He also became a wonderful dad. But sometimes you need to let go of someone you love, so they can Change!!!

It hurts, but it has to be done sometimes.

Hope all works out for you. Good luck hun!

He is one lucky man! I would love for you to be my wife! Horny women rule! Did he watch the baby being born? Maybe the whole watching thing messed him up! Some men can't take seeing a kid come out of where he plays! As a man I think pregant women are sexy and some women work hard after wards and are even hotter than before! Nothing is hotter than a horny woman!

He may associate you with motherhood and now that seems creepy to him. He may need counseling to see you as a woman and as a mother.

There is one other possibility. If you held off sex for a long period of time during the pregnancy, he may have redefined your relationship to that of sister and he may have found someone who is a lover(or is considering it).

Women don't understand that becoming less sexual has a profound affect on feelings of love. The love may be there, but it's no longer a wife love or erotic love... but that of a friend or sister.

Women can stay in love without sex because sex follows feelings for them... feelings follow sex for a man. That's why more men leave their wife after an affair than women. They fall in love with the better sex... but not directly because of the sex... it's a doorway to love for men.

well its probably nothing and good job for lookin good after your baby and congrats on the baby.....as for your question, I want sex all the time so much that it has gotten my boyfriend to not even want to kiss me at the time (were past it now because I stoped acting like I wanted it and within a week he came to me and it was such a good feeling letting him make the first move and you will feel the same, as for the phone thing tell him that babies make girls have crazy emotions and that you think he is being suspicious and its giving you an un easy feeling GOOD LUCK!

Whenever he is at work, check his e-mail if you know the password. When the phone bill comes in, check the numbers and see if any of them are dialed quite a bit or that number calls his. There is no telling what he is doing behind your back. I hope he is doing nothing stupid. If he is, I hope he puts a stop to it because he needs to be there for you and help you with whatever you need help with. I wish you the best and hope things get better for you.

I think the reality of we become very maternal to them, they see us nurturing their children, sadly were dumped into the "MOM" category :( When i was pregnant w/ my son, I remember my husband looking at me and saying "awwww you look like a MOM" he didnt mean it in a real bad way But, i knew after that he'd never see me the same....I was 23 when i was pregnant and not by any means do i look or ever looked like a frumpy mom But, i had his baby ...I became that mom role in his eyes.........We have a decent sex life , Im 27 still look young & cute but.....I know im not that young , childless , hot sexy crazy girl anymore!

The arrival of a baby changes the relationship between the couples. Maybe he feels sad that the baby has gotten between the two of you and he feels left out.

The phone is a mystery, I can only say that after my wife had our son she became so much more beautiful to me !

To watch her instinctively care for him left me in awe of her and all women.

Some guys lose interest I have no idea why.

Get him away from the porn, maybe that can help

Ah, how would I know??? Serious?? How would I know???

But most men who are married are extremely happy with the new baby thrilled about their wives giving birth.