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TRUE Christians: Your Opinion Of The Following Statement?

"A gay man is just a man who hasn't yet found the right woman."

Not only do I think that is an uneducated view that oversimplifies everything, but it disrespects women even more than someone who tells them they have no right to decide whether or not they want to have children. NOW women are being told that being married to a gay man is better than not being married at all. But that's just what I read into it.

I'd like to hear what YOU think...Women especially...Would you even care whether or not the man you married preferred other men?

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  • Mara
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    TRUE Christians? I don't want to accuse anyone of being a false Christian. It's no one's place to make those judgments but God.

    Anyways, that statement reveals massive ignorance. Someone who says that shows they know nothing about sexual orientation. If a man is gay, he's not suddenly going to be sexually attracted to a woman no matter how wonderful she is.

    Lol, yes I would care if my husband preferred men. I want my husband to prefer only me to all women and men. Saying he prefers men indicates he just settled when he married me. No one wants that kind of relationship. He would never be as happy as he could be and neither would I.

  • <(__)>
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    How do you know if someone is a true christian or not? Also I know christians that support homosexuality, isn't this quite prejudice. Being gay is often sexulally driven but religion doesn't seem to mind the actual sex seeing as catholics are over obsessive about it. I think it's perfectly fine that a gay man should love a man, they in my opinion shouldn't be limited by the word gay. They've found their soulmate, or someone they feel attracted to by hopefully personality first. So what if they're the same sex :/ I completely disagree with your statement, true there may be a woman that a gay man could love or vise versa, but that doesn't mean that all people are like that. Yes it is an uneducated view, as they shouldn't believe that all people have to be heterosexual. I wouldn't mind marrying a gay person though, just as long as they aren't cheating on me, there's really no difference. Also it's not saying that being married to a gay person is better than not being married :/ what are you reading from this, it's not really criticizing women, just saying men aren't being led the right way.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    for the reason that i think of conservative Christians, fundamentalist Christians do not word the sabbath which to me is basic, I truthfully have situation thinking that's even real. Re: trusting people, properly, have confidence is the form of massive word. have you ever been fooled or theory issues approximately how people look to later discover out this heavily isn't real? So have confidence in that experience isn't some thing I provide away. I will additionally 'have confidence to a factor' and that factor is adjustable. How some distance do you have confidence your vehicle mechanic mutually with your bill, as an occasion?

  • 1 decade ago

    I have no doubt that some men are attracted to men as opposed to women. To imply that homosexual urges can be so easily remedied is completely ridiculous. I would absolutely NOT want to be the woman "responsible" for removing a man's homosexual desires! I agree, this is a completely ignorant statement. Most ministries recognize homosexuality as a legitimate urge, not something that can be so easily dismissed. As a Christian, I have never heard another believer seriously support a viewpoint like this- looks like the vocal minority strikes again.

    Don't get me wrong- I believe that homosexuality is wrong and I do not support gay marriage, but I often see the Christian viewpoint on homosexuality misrepresented. If you'd like me to elaborate on my own Biblical and scientific stance on homosexuality, please ask. I will not bore you unprovoked, though :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    This is an invitation for getting a violation notice im not touching it with a ten foot pole. yahoo needs to lighten its nazi like standards

  • 1 decade ago

    What I get from it is whoever said it thinks no one is truly gay.

    Thats just stupid.

    I think if a man loves a man, he should be with a man.

    If a woman loves a woman, she should be with a woman.

  • Sylar
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I really haven't found the right woman yet, does that make me gay? Of course not.

  • 1 decade ago

    False. A Homosexual man is a man who has decided to have sex with a man or men. Anyone who has had sexual contact with anyone else, made that decision whether it was with a man or a woman.

  • 1 decade ago

    To be honest I Believe that statement is pure stupidity.

  • 1 decade ago

    i am a true Christian & i think its untrue gay ppl have their own personal reasons to choose who they want & u cant speak for all of them

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