What to do with my over 40 yr. old daughter?

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I need serious advice , please no jokes or humor.
My daughter is over 40 yrs old. she has 5 children  ( all grown ) the youngest being 17 yr. old twins.
She is very jealous of all her children and me ( her mother ) she wants full and complete control and will not let this family have peace. she has turned all the children against each other at one time or another, she has also turned them against me  ( or has tryed ) she will not get help as she thinks she is ALRIGHT?  she is controlling, self centered, lets the kids eat ONLY when she says they can ( the ones at home ) 
She can not stand peace in the family what so ever. She is a manipulator, controller and if one does not do as she wills , she refuses to speak to them or feed them etc. She curses all the time , calls her children retarded, stupid and other select words i can not print here. 
I know that I can not help her or make her go to a doctor , it seems as though she is very evil. 
Any honest, good suggestions? I am 57 yrs old  not a old beat out person and this breaks my heart. I have grown very cold toward her and her attitude . She doesn't care and her fav term is F___ it!!!
and if no one likes it they can kiss my a@@ , she is up and down , her mind is not functioning the correct way.
One of my grand children just became a Marine and does not have the guts to tell her to back off, she is still controlling him and he is letting her. She has also turned him against me within several hours, YES HOURS how can this be. Is she evil, possessed or what. I am not making this up. I need an answer if there might be a doctor in the house please.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Your daughter needs to cool down. She sounds extremely stressed out. Yes very bossy and controlling. I've known some similar to her personality and they are wonder loving people, but they cuss every known nasty word to express their anger. The lady I know is loved by everyone and has talent galore, makes and does everything perfectly. I don't know why people have to abuse so much awful language. But I've learned to ignore her bad habits of truck driver talk.  Glad I don't live with her but love her to bits. The name calling things too so what makes a person do it I'll never know. You might think of moving out and away from hearing it so much. Are the kids doing OK with it? I will never question why people are stuck on that sort of talk. Some are and some aren't. I always felt I didn't want my kids to use rough talk so never got into it myself.  You've got get a place of your own and get into some activities that don't involve listening to hard talk. God Bless and hope something works out good.

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At sixteen, if she doesnt wish to head then theres quite not anything neither can do approximately it. He can threaten all he wishes to or even take you again to courtroom over this (that is while you convey up all his threats and the whole lot that is going on while she is there to the Judge). Nothing will occur on your little one aid as no longer even the Judge could make her cross if she doesnt wish to, notably if she has simply rationale for no longer doing so. Also the police cant do some thing approximately this as that is past their expertise except some thing unlawful is concerned. The legalsystem is in your part right here however hold a exact list of any touch you have got with dad and any witnesses will aid if this does emerge as in courtroom. Good success

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woah u were 17.. nice. im not sure if you can cure such a person like this, but its not always your daughters fault. maybe she got this way from her childhood.

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