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Should I go for it or not?

To begin, I’m a female and a lesbian. Well anyway, I met this girl and I really like her. She is smart, funny, dependable, responsible, in college, working on a career, has a job and we get along well. The thing is, I just learned that she is bisexual and I was thinking of asking her out but I don’t know if I should. What do you guys think?

(We are both over 18 and in college)

Update:

Ok, so you guys know I don't think her being BI is a bad thing at all, I just wanted to let all of you know she was not straight so it could maybe work... nothing against bi people what so ever that would be kind of odd... me being a lesbian and all...

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Yes! I've learned to always go for it.

    There's no shame in being turned down, but there is shame in letting something great pass you by.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go right ahead. It's not like lesbians can only date lesbians. Not to be rude but it's just you seemed like her being bi's a set back

    good luck :)

  • 1 decade ago

    I, myself, am not lesbian or bisexual but i do support people who are and think they should have the same rights as anyone else.. but i think you should go for it. you should take it slow at first but deffinitly ask her out and get to know her more..just think if you dont then you will sit there and wonder "What if.." for the rest of your life.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have only heard she is bisexual, you do not know this for sure. So certainly date her and as you already know her well, I am sure the question of sexuality will eventually come up and you can have an open discussion about it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I don't see why not.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask her, so what if she is into both sides. as long as she is loyel and true to you, who cares who her eyes check out from time to time. The worst she can say is no, so go for it, youl be happyier knowing wither way

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes go for it:)

    hope it works out.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it, definitely!

  • 1 decade ago

    whats the problem?

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for it!

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