Could this be a breaking point?

Ok, so currently its a long distance relationship because he's out of state finishing school. We talk nightly and all day through texting. We've talked a lot and when he was home for break we had sex once. It was good (him being a virgin and all) and we've talked about in the future what would happen, and he doesn't like what I like, and won't do what I like. Like I like it hard and rough and fast, and he's already said point blank he won't do that (cuz I like my cervix hit) cuz it would cause me pain. No matter how much I tell him I like that pain, he says he won't do it. He also refuses to even talk about doggy style or anal (again things I like). He also refuses to tie me up, again I like this sometimes.

Could this be a breaking point with him refusing to do what I like? Or is it something we could work out? Cuz I honestly think if I don't get what I like that I will wander. He's admitted that he MIGHT be willing to try some things, but there isn't a guarantee that he will.