What if your spouse died today? Would you have regrets or guilt for things left undone or unsaid?

you and I are a dieing breed, my wife died 12 yrs ago, it seems like it was yesterday at times, they say time heals all but they are wrong, when u truely love someone and they die, time means nothing, u never forget or stop loving that person, the hurt and the pain will always be with you, and God bless you

In any relationship you should never take the other person for granted life is not a sure thing..I would think that regrets and guilt for things left undone or unsaid are all a part of the natural grieving process;it is something we as humans do to ourselves; sometimes when we should not. We just need to thank God for everyday we have;and treat each day as though it were our last.I agree with you that all couples married or not should appreciate each other while they have the chance.It can all be gone in the blink of an eye.

God Bless You.

It has occured to me how much my husband does and I have tried to really do all the housework that I can as he works a lot and I feel like it's something I can do for us.

All in all I have no regrets. If anything -God forbid- happened my biggest regrets would be not having children and not going on some vacations which I know he wanted to do so he could relax and enjoy some time together.

I always try to tell him how much I love him. In fact today we had a hug while shopping and I just remembered how great it felt for him to take care of me and to let my guard down just a little. I have a few things on my mind and am sick so it felt good knowing he was there.

I think all in all though things are good between us and I don't think I would have any major regrets except that we have so much more time to go.

Why am I telling you this? Because I want you to know there are happy couples out there. We try not to fight and see each other's point of view and we really are partners. I know I'm lucky.

I am sorry for your loss. It sounds like you are a wonderful person and your husband had a blessed life to have met you.

Good luck.

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I am sorry for your loss and happy for your gain. You sound like a caring woman and God always rewards those who have a "heart for Him".

I can't say I know how you feel because I am not a widow, yet. I'd have to feel your pain if I wish to advise you better. But, regardless of what life throws at you, whether is trial, loss or failures, there is only one way you can always come out victorious and that is the faith you have, I can see it by the times you have given God the glory in your writing.

But thanks for reminding us the importance of living each day as if it was the last next to the person you love.

The only regret I had when my partner died (2006) is that we weren't together for longer (9 years). I understand about the house. I had to do all of the house up as we had never got around to doing it properly. I felt as if I was betraying him (weird, I know) as he had ideas about what he wanted to do. You are lucky that you have found someone else to share your life with. I am still grieving, so am not able to let anyone else into my heart yet.

If your new husband is your best friend also - then it sounds like you have the perfect place to go to talk it out - a loving, caring ear to help you through those melancholy days that will inevitably occur. Share these feelings with your new husband - you may just find the support anyone in you shoes could use.

And.....I'm sure everyone would deal with the situation in their own way - but I imagine there are always some regrets....

hun im so sorry to hear of ur loss, my heart goes out to u. when u are in love with someone even if u dont do somethings and there r other things u dont say they will always know that u love them. perhaps there was more time that could have been spent together but the times u did spend together im sure were magical and they will stay with u forever. the memories u have of the times u spent with ur husband must be cherished hun. altough at the moment u may feel things were left unsaid and things left undone, ur husband will know u loved him and will continue to love him. please dont have any regrets. im sure ur husband loved u just as much as u loved him and he will be watching over u now. please dont feel bad about not saying or doing things with him, cherish those good times that u did spend together. xxx

I wondered the very same thing KillerQueen did. Less than a year is a bit too soon to be re-married, in my humble opinion. To date, okay. As you obviously know, marriage should be for life.

Since you have a relationship with God, and believe it was His call, He will help you deal with "things left unsaid", as well cope with the stresses of a new marriage, while the old one is unresolved.

I pray things work out for you.

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