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? asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

Have you ever had a one night stand?

I'm a singer and actress and I'm on tour 8 months a year. It gets pretty lonely out there. I'm sorry to say that a couple of times I've succumbed to the loneliness. I'm not proud of it.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    A few times if I were to be honest. I know how you feel. Sometimes you can feel like the only person in the world and just need someone to hold on to.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have. And i'm not proud of it either, but yes you're right, there comes a time when it just happens or you need it. It sucks, I know. Been there, done that and no, I'm not a whore but I don't judge. It's fine as long as you know that 1) you want it, 2) he wants it and 3) it stays a one night stand. Anything more gets messy.

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No. I've considered it, but never happened yet.

    I think I would be more open to it if there weren't awful double standards in society about what happens if a girl has a one night stand. Especially since I was at a recent going away party for a friend, and a male rudely criticised my friend behind her back because she hooked up with a guy. That really shook me.

  • 1 decade ago

    No from what I hear it tends to lead to an even deeper feeling of being lonely. Have a friend you can call no matter what time of the night it is. It leads to a less destructive road. I on the other hand can not say that I have given into one night stands or sex even for that matter.

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  • 1 decade ago

    We all have!! But as long as you use protection then you have nothing to be ashamed of. You are an adult (I assume) and have the right to make choices. Do you think poorly of men that have one night stands? Do you think that men hide the fact that they have had one night stands from their guy friends? If you answer to no to these questions than no sweat. You are not corrupt, immoral, and as long as you are safe (be tested on a regular basis regardless of what they tell you!) then you have no reason to worry about it. Empower yourself, be confident that you are a women that knows what she wants, don't succumb to loneliness, instead seek company, its only bad if your mind tells you it is. Just be safe and don't be taken advantage of...ever!

    If you are just lonely, don't have sex as your first go to, you don't have to have sex to make men want to be around you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    i have and i'm not proud of it either. i didn't like the sex at all. He was only interested in himself, as , i guess i was too! the difference is, he got off and i did not. I don't think youre a hoe though.(like above) Men on tour do it all the time! , it is so natural to have needs, and IF one night stands MEET your needs, then i dont see a problem with it. but i dont enjoy sex unless my lover loves me entirely! good luck!

  • shyguy
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    I know yours is a very old post but wanted to put my 2$ worth anyway. Since I have been following you on answers you have been very consistent with your answers to those who ask so I know you are an honest person because every answer is the same. I like your music. I have not seen any of your movies but from your picture know you are very pretty. Good luck on the rest of your career.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yes!! Too many to count! Theyre much easier than relationships because i dont have to get attached and I often do when Im on vacation.. but sometimes it turns out to be more than 1 night because they call the next day & you go on a date

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do you have a website, I would like to see your stuff.

    But about the one night stand. I never had one, but who cares. As long as you are in no relationship. And as long as you don't love God or blieve in him, you'll have nothing to worry about. Just don't get pregnant or STDs

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hell no!!! I would never had a one night stand with anyone. I have too much respect for my body to do anything like that.

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