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I caught my girlfriend having sex with her neighbor, what should I do?

My gf told me to stop having sex for a couple of weeks so I was ok with that. Last night, I was going to her house and when I ringed the bell nobody answered the door but I knew she was there because I saw the lights on in her room, so I walked to the window and I looked through it and I saw her totally naked with her neighbor doing her. More than pissed I felt sorta sick. I mean I thought she loved me. I don't really know the guy but if I find him on the street I going to beat the hell outta him. I haven't talked to my gf ever since and she tried calling me and she even went to my house but I didn't answered the door, so I guess she already noticed I acting "weird" I don't know what to do. I still love her but I don't think I could forgive her.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    she obviously doesnt care about u. dump her and find somebody else. u derserve way better than that. and dont ignore her. tell her wat she did. she deserves to feel like crap. anybody who can cheat is a loser and pathetic

  • jesus
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    Having Sex With Neighbor

  • 1 decade ago

    Ouch, that hurts. Caught her in the act with a neighbor. Obviously you have to dump her. SHe left you for him. Doesn't matter why, it matters that she's doing someone else instead of you. Maybe it was just a sex thing, but why get involved in this kinda thing. No win for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Dump the lil slu*s @$$. You deserve better. She never really loved you to be doing something like that behind your back. You deserve someone who loves you and only wants you NOT everyone on the block. I mean that is just the one you saw so who knows.

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  • 1 decade ago

    tell her the truth that you saw her doing her neighbor see what she says if shes sincere forgive her if not shes a cheater and gonna be a cheater theres more fish in the sea go to plentlyoffish.com theres always another girl that u can find screw as many as u can dont get married

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry dude, that really sucks. I couldn't forgive because you know it has been going on for awhile now. Walk away form this one, it ain't worth it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her exactly what you just wrote and then say goodbye. You have first hand information that she was cheating. You can't trust her and you can't, right now forgive her.

  • 1 decade ago

    wow,,

    okay thats ****** upp!!!

    you really need to dump her ***!! if she cant be faithful to you then she doesnt deserve you.

    and if she is willing to do this once, then theres no guarantee that she wont do it again

  • 1 decade ago

    Shes a slut, let her suffer a bit.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That's tough. Talk to her and see what she says then decide. Maybe you can work through it maybe she doesn't want to.

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