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I think Im in love with a gay guy is it possible?

Ok so my best friend is a guy and is gay,, I'm a girl btw, and we are falling in love, he's always been special to me and we are really close, we haven't done anything physical yet,, but we both want to. We have talked about living with each other and maybe one day getting married. But if he's really really gay would he ever really be happy with me? He says I am the 1st and ONLY girl that has ever made him feel this way or even concider being with like that!

I don't want to lose him as my friend, but I want to go to the next level with him.

HEEELLLPPP!!!!!

Update:

at our ages?? LOL Im 36

Update 2:

He's very gay,, has been with more than one guy,, and has been with a girl sexually before,, never been with a girl he was in love with.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I have actually heard of gay men marrying their best friends, and even being in true love with them, but on an emotional level. of course this would not be ideal relationship for most people & it would def. have its challenges to overcome. I would assume if you did end up forming a long term with him, then you would have to be open about it while letting him sleep with other guys. He certainly has his own sexual needs that need to be fulfilled. I would look at this relationship as an almost "Will & Grace" type of thing. As long as you are both willing to make it work and work with the issues that will come along, it is sure to be a great situation. :) Just be open minded, straight forward, and tell him exactly how you feel & what exactly you want, etc.

    Source(s): remember every relationship is different and unique. as long as both partners are willing to work with one another, then anything is possible.
  • Luis
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Simple, doesn't matter what anyone here tells you, you'll do what you like. You'll only use an answer here to justify your actions.

    Whatever you do, make sure to talk about it, and set rules, so that if you do have sex, you have rules of engagement and rules if it goes wrong, and if you don't, you need rules for boundaries to prevent these feelings from building again.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Possibly he hasn't had SEX with a Guy yet, only curious.

    ANY Rel'ship based on sex with him wouldn't work.....many Gay guys have had sex w/Girls....even Marry, have children....but, end in Divorce....forget Marriage.

    IF one day he finds that one Man and is SURE he is Gay, then what?

    Just enjoy each others company.....at your ages you are just 'curious' about Sex.

  • Jay
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I concur with the second poster. Make sure you both recognise the different types of love.

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  • 1 decade ago

    not only he, but you as well, are only going to be happy if he can get it up.

    Might as well try, you both seem willing to give it a chance, if sex just can't happen, you can just continue to be friends.

  • 1 decade ago

    If he feels this way for you than I don't think he's gay in the first place, he might be bi, otherwise don't fall in love with a homo.

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