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Got invited to the bridal shower but not the wedding?
the groom and i had history(long story) im dating his best friend and his fiance invited me to the bridal shower and i asked my bf if im invited and he said "no b/c the history from 2 yrs ago" like its 2 yrs ago and my bf is using it as a excuse. i thought i would be invited b/c of the bridal shower but i think i got used, betrayed and lied too. what should i do?
9 Answers
- WoodsLv 71 decade ago
If you have already attended the bridal shower and given a gift, there's nothing much you can do. However, if you haven't then simply don't attend the shower.
To invite you to a shower and not the wedding shows poor taste. Either (1) the bride assumed your bf would bring you to the wedding when she put your name on the shower list, or (2) the bride is showing bad etiquette by not inviting you to the wedding.
Could your bf be the one who doesn't want you at the wedding? Could it be him that's worried about the past? If it was the bride, it seems like you wouldn't be included in anything at all. I'm assuming your bf is invited to the wedding, and may be in the wedding. If so, then I would ask him why he's not allowed to bring a date. I think you may have a jealous bf on your hands. If so, you deserve to know.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's MAJOR bad etiquette to invite someone to the shower who is not invited to the wedding.
But why would the bride's friends invite you to the bridal shower if the bride had a problem with your former relationship with the groom? That doesn't make any sense.
- 1 decade ago
Did you already attend the bridal shower. If so that was low and dirty of her, and she did use you. Try talking to her yourself and simply ask if your invited in a funny and friendly way and see what the response is. If she say no I would tell her off and confront her for being childish and cheap to use you. Besides you don't have history with her so see what she say. Going by others word isn't always the complete facts.
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- ?Lv 45 years ago
a million. Whoever is invited to a bridal bathe would desire to be invited to the marriage. 2. A bride can't throw herself a bathtub. it rather is thrown by utilising a bridesmaid or close pal or kinfolk member. 3. No bride is entitled to a bathtub. assorted brides dont have one. After the marriage, why dont you invite the girls over to your place for a ladies nighttime? you are able to tell them approximately your wedding ceremony and instruct them a photograph, perhaps make popcorn and watch a action picture. only passing it slow with them to instruct them they are nevertheless important to you would be a pretty gesture on your occasion.
- RoofingPrincessLv 71 decade ago
Respectfully decline the invitation to the bridal shower.
Consider finding a new bf.
- JudeLv 61 decade ago
It is rude to invite someone to a bridal shower and not to the wedding. I would send my regrets.
- iloveweddingsLv 71 decade ago
Have you already gone to the bridal shower? If not, then don't go.
If you did and, I assume, also purchased a gift...well, chalk it up to "life experience."
It is totally rude to not invite you to the wedding if they invited you to the shower. Very rude.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Decline the invite