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WHY WOULD HE DO THIS TO ME ?? DOESNT HE WANT TO SEE ME HAPPY AGAIN??!!!?
Im feeling really hurt right now i feel like i just want to rip my heart out so i wont be able ot feel this way anymore. Me and my ex was going to make a year. But he broke up with me he said he didnt feel the same i was in love with him and a part of me still loves him no matter what. i would never do anything to hurt him. right before we broke up he confessed that in our last break up he invited his ex over to his house. he told me this over the phone and tears literally came down my face but i couldnt let him know he hurt me really deeply. Well we said we would be friends and i figured out he blocked me on aim. so today i saw he was online meaning he unblocked me and on his away it read. "10/19/09 C & j. i had an amazing time with her" and he writes to me saying hey and how was school so i just ignored him and he signs off. it hurt me right now. why do you think he did that. because it sounds like to me he did that on purpose why would he unblock me the same day he started seeing someone else, he knows i loved him so why does he want to hurt me? Why does he want to speak to me now? and how can he just replace what me and him had with someone else just like that?
He told me that he hopes i find someone who will make me happy and i told him i hope he finds someone for him too but how come hes rubbing it in my face that really breaks my heart.
7 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Please move on, try to stop loving him. my guess is he couldnt stop thinking of u so he blocked in order to get u out of his mind. he is seeing someone new that kinda fills the gap u left, dont let him get the better of u ok.
- 1 decade ago
No one really knows what makes people do the crap they do.
I'm sorry you're hurting and I know what it's like. You have to be strong and build yourself back up. Don't let this experience make you afraid to feel again, nor afraid to embrace the pain you're feeling now.
These are the hard knocks in life that we all did, are or will go through eventually and it definitely builds character, strength and teaches you what red flags to look out for when the next jerk tries to pull similar stunts on you :)
Let it go. He's obviously not a good guy to want to rub salt in your wounds. Why would you even want to remain friends with an ex who dumped you and then flaunts his new girl. Do yourself a favor and delete him off your contact lists so you don't have to be reminded of him when he pops on and off.
Feel the pain, cry, heal and step up your game. From experience, I warn you not to run from the pain because if you do, you are doomed to repeat this scenario until you face it.
Get your hair done, a new outfit, spruce yourself up and keep smiling. Never let a guy see that he made you look like you got run over by a weed wacker on his account :)
I wish you speedy healing.
- 1 decade ago
It sounds like he just wasn't committed to you and wants to keep you on the back burner as an option. You should avoid this guy so that he doesn't hurt you anymore. I think that getting that involved with someone that isn't committed to you is how you end up dealing with the hardships of divorce and being a single parent. I look at my dad's relationship with his wife as an example for how a relationship is supposed to work. He always considers my step mothers feelings and would never do anything like that because he is completely devoted to his wife. This guy sounds like a flake and flakes can not be trusted... especially when your future happiness is at stake.
- curlies55Lv 41 decade ago
You know babe, some times guys turn into @$$ hol3s when they want to move on. It could be that he does want to break up with you and he made sure you knew it was for good by letting you know he was with another girl. He could have unblocked you so he could hear someone crying over him (his ego). I don't like games Sugar but I would definitely let him have it. DO NOT let him know you are hurting. If you play your cards right he'll be sorry he left you. You gotta know the game gf. You gotta know how to date.
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