Ladies, since I have tirned 40 ?

Nothin wrong wiv you my husband went through that !!!

Its just hittin the big 40 you feel you have to sow your oats while you still can ?? it will pass believe me .

You may be married to a cougar and not know it. What your doing is natural. But don't think for a second your libido is greater than your wife's. Start turning that attention on her and watch the fires rise up in her.

40 is old? LOL.

And if your wife is about your age her libido should be running in high gear. Maybe you're just not turning her on the right way?

It doesn't really matter as long as you don't act on any of your 'urges'. And don't let those girls at the gym catch you looking at them for too long, you could get kicked out. All guys, young and old look at other women from time to time. What separates the men from the boys is when to draw the line between looking and cheating!!!

Haha don't go to my gym my bf would teach you a little lesson of checking me out while I work out! I'll admit it creeps me out when older guys check me out but 40 isn't too bad, just make sure no catches you and your wondering eyes!

I'm not going to say shame on you, but make SURE that it doesn't go anywhere, and NEVER check them out in front of your wife. Good luck to you both. Cancer is a tough hand to play.

If all you do is LOOK, there's nothing wrong with it. But if it goes any further, like lewd remarks, flat-out leering or even touching, there's a big problem.

its human nature to look.

as long as you dont act on it, or become that creepy guy that lewdly stares, then youre fine.