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Christians, I need advise please...About husband/seperation&sex.?
My husband left 3months ago today and we have still be having sex regulary (about once a week). I was told that since we are still married to him it's okay to have sex with him. I am trying to be obedient in God's word and do what is right by being submissive.Tonight my husband said horrible things to me, and the last time we had sex he was very aggressive. I don't think I can have sex with him anymore, but would that be me going against God's word??
Please only serious answers. I have been debating and praying over this for sometime now. I've gotten mixed answers from various Christians. I don't want to feel like I'm being used. He already abandoned me and i feel utterly rejected.
He already said he wants a divorce and that is why he left. I'm so depressed about this.
2 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He is taking advantage of you. He left you, says he wants a divorce, says horrible things to you and is aggressive, why would you even consider having sex with him? If there was some chance that the two of you were going to work this out then maybe I could see how it might be alright to have sex with him but with the rest of the details you give no way.
I have seen this one play out in reverse with the wife taking advantage of the husband. Eventually she filed a restraining order, took the kids, and had him thrown out of a busness he helped to create. The best thing you can do is move on.
- 1 decade ago
The big D word is coming up. You need to pray about this, and your communication with God needs to be strong, so that you will feel that it is all right in your case to go through with it. God did not give men permission to abuse their wives.
