Is having sex with 5 different guys bad?

not necessarily. however, you might want to change your technique so that you date more before you start boinking. you don't want to burn yourself out by the time you're 25.

emotionally, i think it would be hard on you to have that many intimate relationships in that short a time. or else you're just boinking b/c you like boinking more than you like intimacy.

this also depends on where you live. if you lived in my town, you'd quickly get A Reputation And Not A Good One If You Know What I Mean And I Think You Do. but we've only got about 3,000 people in town, and the high school, which is in the next town over, only has about 500 students, total. as a result, it's really easy for tales of a girl's behavior to get around & for people to judge her.

however, if you live in a bigger city and you're not drawing all of your partners from the same pool (like the local rugby teams), then you're safe from gossip.

waitaminnit. i just did the math.

*what* on God's sweet green earth were you doing starting to sleep with guys at 15, anyway? that's *waaay* too early -- personally (and i'm a mom to a 21 year old and "mom" to about five of her friends,) that signals a need for attention that you're not getting elsewhere or in any other way. my daughters friends range from one who started boinking at 15 & is now a druggie (with a reputation --- again. small town.) to a girl who's still a virgin and swears to remain one until she marries.

as a mom, i'm going to suggest that you do some serious self-examination. talk to an adult you trust, or find a counselor/therapist. sex at 15 is just too early & makes a girl grow up too fast. missing those innocent teenage years is sad & there's nothing sadder than someone who got knocked up before she's 21 hitting 40 & deciding that, since she's been tied down for 20 years and missed out on being a teenager, she's going to go back and do that part of her life now. you know the type i'm talking about -- the ones with too-tight, too young clothes, flirting with the 20something guys who'll go for it because they want to get laid.

really. think about what you're doing and why. place a higher value on yourself.

You should try your best to be with as few of guys as possible. If you just like being with a lot of different guys, even over a 4 year span, please make sure that you are using condoms. It is not healthy for your body to have that many guys inside of you, you will end up having female problems later, seriously.

Emotionally it could be devastating too, years from now. It's amazing how even when you are with someone that you love, if they say to you "hey have you ever done this or would you like to try that" in bed, you will have a flash of what you have done with other people and how many people you have been with. The mind is a terrible thing sometimes, because even when we want to forget somethings, we can't. It would be nice if our brains had a recycle bin, but they don't.

Take Care. Hope that helps.

If it is over the span of 4 years then I don't really think that it is that bad. 19 and older teenage years and the years when a lot of people experiment with their sexuality. As long as your doing it safely and everything, I don't see it as a problem. That's just my opinion.

well it depends on how she's doing it and how many dudes in how many nights. Plus it depends on how you see it also. Some females and dudes do just have sex with multiple people and they're just getting their ***** and/or *******. Some females do it because they have low self esteem and never had that father figure or male figure in their life and thats the only way they think they feel they're being loved by a dude. Also some females just had sex at a young age and maybe feels like the dude that they're dating are ready to take that step in their relationship. It's a two way street but it just depends on how they're doing it.

If that's what you choose to do with your body then that's what you choose, I don't think its nasty as long as you protected yourself, hell on the bunny ranch they sleep with 5 men or more in a day. So what makes your sex drive so wrong an you are 19 so you are grown. If you have to question what you are doing then you shouldn't do it but i would not call you a whore or slut or any of those derogatory names . You just want to be pleased when you want it. Girl do you just stay protected......if you choose to have sex with 16 men you must always carry yourself as a women, an love yourself so others can love you also

If you're questioning it, the answer is probably yes. Obviously you feel uncomfortable with your number count. Sex is different for everyone. Some people are comfortable having had 39 partners, some 15, some only 1.

Not if you have a time span between them, but i would suggest slowing down. 5 at your age maybe a little much. Just respect yourself and be careful.

The more you have sex with different guys the more it becomes normal to you, and the more you tend to sleep with more guys......which increases your risk of getting STDs. Condoms are only effective to a certain point, they can wear and tear (assuming you are using them) and you can get herpes which is not preventable by use of condom, And yes oral sex IS NOT SAFE SEX. Atleast I told you the facts, it's your choice to decide which way to go now.

Sex with one as a minor is a illegal. You are an adult now so you can have sex with other adults as you please. Avoid having sex with minors as their judgement is fully developed and they are not capable of evaluating their actions as well as an adult.

Through your late teens and twenty's you will probably explore your sexuality and have several partners. Research safe sex and enjoy the adventure. If you feel it is wrong…wait…good partners will remain and be available. A bad partner might hurt you and that could be scaring.

First off don't listen to ppl who say your a whore. It was over 4 years. that's like 7 months in between. just don't let a lot of ppl know if its possible and stop worrying. Its your decision and im sure you'll make the right one