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Why Do So Many Women Look for Bums and Bad Boys?

I see so many nice and intelligent fellows who can't find a good and supportive woman. My son is intelligent, a hard worker, not a bad looker, has money, but at 25, has trouble finding a companion. But I see deadbeats, skin heads, thugs, and ex-cons with women hanging on them. A number of these girls get pregnant, have a child, and the bum leaves them. So many of these mothers (who did not think to get married) live in poverty because their guy refuses to pay child support.

Is it in the water?

And please don't tell me how you can find someone on eharmony. It just ain't happening. No wonder our society is falling apart, the children have little stability in their lives. I know because as a teacher, I see these poor kids who come from these relationships.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    a person might also ask why do so many guys want shallow witchy and down right mean women who are interested in doing nothing but crapping on them. he's only 25 I wouldn't worry too much I'd rather my son or daughter took their time finding a life mate. my hubby and I didn't get married until we were 25 almost 26. you can also be proud that your son is not a man whore. if he is indeed interested in finding someone he should be looking in places where he has interest whether it be church school or other organizations.eharmony is bolony!

  • ?
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    That's a good question.Easy,they want people who are wild attention seekers and thrillers.Most of what you say is what I see on a daily basis and I never understood that.What gets me is they don't go for the nice guys and every once in a while some of these women look for nice guys,but when they already have a kid.I'd say no to them for not doing the right thing in the first place.For dating sites it doesn't work and it's a waste of time.

    Source(s): My opinion
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Most women are attracted to bad boys, and they're not decent themselves. Your son is a hard worker, so maybe they think that he looks too respectable. Don't worry, your son's gonna find a good woman later on :) Wait for the right girl, I guess.

    Source(s): I can't really explain what I was thinking :P
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