needed some attention right or wrong?

I think you embarassed your husband in front of his friends. If you need more attention at times like these, you need to tell him so, but not demand it in front of many people. Tell him, one on one, not in front of a crowd!

Fair enough that you wanted some attention from him, but WRONG way to go about it.

Sounds more like you indulged in an act of spite rather than a real honest plea for attention. "so i got up on the bar and started to dance very provacative to see if i could get his attention. well i did and everyones attention too.." Well you got his attention, but just not in a good way.

You two seem too immature to be in this relationship at all. He ignores you, and you go over the top in some petty form of revenge.

Yes it was wrong of you. Really, the world does NOT revolve around you. If he never takes you out in public again, it would be your own fault.

What a spoiled little brat you are. You're like the 2 year old who always interrupts...look at me...see me...

Grow up.. and if you haven't had kids yet, don't. You're not ready to share the spotlight with anyone and children deserve better.

Not a good call at all, but we all have moments where we feel desperate to get attention when feeling hurt and sorry for ourselves. Need to keep things in check at such moments. You need to talk to him, express how you feel instead of acting out in such ways. Because there are definitely wrong ways to get "the wrong kind of attention".

Yeah thats the way to every man Pants - not their hearts.

Slutty pole dancing in a sleazy bar never helped out any wife I know of.

Good luck.

I agree with Older - You embarrassed him. If you want attention from him, there are better ways to get it. You atempted to show off and made an idiot out of yourself. Way to go.

Now you won't have to worry about it tho' - because he's the idiot if he takes you out anywhere again..

C o m m u n i c a t i o n is key.. =)

it was not wrong to try to get attention but don't you think you took it a little far. but if my husband ever called me that he would not walk out of the happy

slutty behavior - but he should not have called you the b - word!