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Why torture yourself?

Actually I'm planning on going straight to the source && getting my answer but seeing as she's not around right now:

I have this friend && I've known her for a long time. She is openly gay, I am...well, I'm unlabel'd. O_o We've been through a lot. Fast forward, everything we've been through has only made our feelings for one another grow stronger. So yes, I love her, && I'm fine with that. She knows it. Vice versa. Fast forward again, she told me how she wants me really badly, knows she can have me, yet pushes me away. She's lik'd me for yeeears....

So my question is, why the hell would you do that to yourself? Why deny yourself something you KNOW you want when you can have it? && why push someone you love away?

Any idea why? && I actually want an answer to my question, so if you haven't a legit opinion, just skip it love.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    try to be more understandable

  • 1 decade ago

    Lesbians are awesome! Okay, being serious, I am sort of going through that right now. I am denying myself because I sort of believe that it will not happen. Every thinks this person likes me and I do like her. I just do not know how to approach the situation. Then again, I often say that you have to hit me over the head to get me to realize it. Maybe she has fear or doubts. I think maybe you are denying yourself by not forcing the issue and just right out make it all known. Good luck to you.

    DRAGON 2012

    "Great fortune for U.S."

  • 1 decade ago

    maybe she wasn't sure

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