I lost her, I need help?

Don't be needy! You are going through a time of life where you are learning social

graces. You learn that lesson by interaction with people. Hanging on to one person

as though you cant interest another, or for fear that what you had will slip away entirely,

is a losers game.

If you have to be in a relationship, you are needy like a street beggar. You need a broader

outlook and possibly several relationships prior to marriage

Without knowing you both it's hard to make a call on this. Since you broke up with her you really don't have much choice but to give her the time she needs to decide whether she wants you or not. Six months from now she might be ready to give you the answer. This is a hard lesson learned. You never know what you have until you don't have it anymore and can't get it back. I speak from experience on this one. Four years later my ex-boyfriend still wants me back but I wasn't going to play the breakup get back together game. I played it once and the second time I was done. Honestly, if you are meant to be together, give her some time. Sounds like she is worth the wait to you.

you said you broke up with your girlfriend.. did she break it off with you or the other way around? you guys are good friends so leave it that.. don't keep asking her because she will just tell you to leave her alone and then your friendship will be over. she obviously doesn't want to be with you anymore or have feelings in that sense for you anymore... it probably hurts like a ***** cause she was probably your first true love from the sounds of it... she knows how you feel so let her think about what you have told her.. the balls in her court.. you told her how you feel . you said you feel like you love her? do you love her or do you think you love her? you can't make some one love you, if she feels the same way you do then she will tell you but don't harass her anymore than you have... try to move on..

dont rush her, thats the last thing a girl wants to feel. Just slowly start getting closer to her then moving back to relationship status SLOWLY dont rush her with be with me ideas

she probally does want to go back out with you she is prolly juss scared that you will break up with her again or maybe she juss wants time to think it over first