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My friend likes the same person as me?
ok so i like this guy and my friend likes him to.
now i didn't tell anyone i liked him because i don't know if he likes me. and my friends blab all the secrets i tell them, but i do the same thing so.
i catch him looking at me sometimes. but i have acne so.. and he is always smiling like crazy when he talks to me. i think he is way to popular for me.and i don't want to get in a mess with my friend.
she already told the whole basketball team she liked him..would it be wrong if i one day said i liked him to..when i was ready? she did say she liked him first? HELP ME PLEASE?!?!
ok can anyone give me a way to tell him..without actually telling him? like not face to face..i such a coward..afraid of rejection..but can anyone think of a cute way to tell him without going face to face
10 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
He smiles when he looks at you. He obviously likes you a lot. Just because someone says they like someone doesn't make it wrong for someone else to like them. For example, I like Ferrari's, that doesn't take them off the market for the rest of the world. If my friend had money to buy one and I did not, I have no right to be angry at him. This situation is very much the same, your friend has expressed she liked him. However, you have the (money) because he likes you and you like him. So if she is really your friend she'll support you. Do not tell her anything, go to the guy and make sure he likes you and then just be like, hey were going out. If she can't except that she is not your friend.
- Kiya JaeLv 41 decade ago
Just keep it to yourself.
Your friend is most likely not going to get over him, and when you mention that you like him, she'll probably feel threatened and protective over him. So if you hangout with him she'll be suspicious for sure. And your friends always come first than boys. Just know that.
Plus it adds loyalty to your personality and friendship.
But if you just feel like you need to get it off your chest then go ahead and tell her, maybe she'll be understanding.
Me and my friend like the same guy, but we trust each other, we''re practically like sisters. So we just admit to liking him, and we leave him to whoever had their eye on him first. Unless she or I found someone else.
We basically give each other a shot (:
- 1 decade ago
Respect your friend if he likes you he will show you sings and your friend will realize that he likes you and not her but if its the other way around just back off don't ruin your friend ship.
- 1 decade ago
One day you should invite her over and tell her the feeling for him.
If she was a good friend she would be okay with it, and you guys would still be friends/ both like him.
Now she might be upset, but it's okay.. you can also keep it to yourself..she'll get over it..
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- 1 decade ago
I think its better if you ask him he likes you.
(without telling your friend.)
if he does then GOOD FOR YOU!!
when she finds out you are going out with him she will
be like "oh"
when you are with your friend start blabbing about how much you miss him and
love<3 him.
she will know you like him more then you.(:
GGOOOODDD LLUUUCCCCKKK(:;!
- 1 decade ago
You can't control who you like and if your friend get mads at you then she isn't a true friend, me and my friend like the same guy, but we just decieded that it would be better for our friendship if we stopped it now so we wouldn't fight over him and we always remembered... CHICKS BEFORE *****. :)
- 1 decade ago
It's okay to like him too.. but if he already likes her then leave it be.. you will not be wrong to say that you like him too.. but your friend will be upset and think your trying to steal her man...But you know you don't need friends who think like that anyways..
- Anonymous1 decade ago
um well I for one wouldn't say it.. but that's me. unless he tells you he likess you. then i'd tell him, because then he'd ask you out, so it wouldn't matter what anyone else thinks .
Source(s): i'm a girl, this has happened 456754 times (: stay cool <3 - Anonymous1 decade ago
take her life, then he will be all yours