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Boyfriend Not Talking To Me?

On Thursday I text my bf asking him if he wanted to hang out, he said no, he'd rather take the night to himself. I said that's fine and went about my business because he never said anything after that. At midnight he said, so you just not going to talk to me, whatever. Threw this attitude. In the morning I tried to apologize, he threw more attitude and I asked him if he wanted me to leave he alone, he said that's fine.

It's Saturday now, not a word from him when we talk everyday all day and have been together for four years. This petty immature crap is ridiculous but I'm leaving him alone like he asked. Should I be the bigger person or leave him alone until he gets out of his funk?

Update:

I understand that Jordan, but the Singles & Dating side is nothing but 13 year olds. Even though this is an immature issue, I'm not 13, I'm an adult and would like perspective from someone who's not almost ten years younger than me.

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  • jude
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe you need a more mature guy. i would leave him alone unless he contacts you first.

  • 1 decade ago

    I read that you're a young 20 y/o woman in college, you've got your head in the right place and building yourself a nice future. Now, all you need is to be a little more men-smart. You started dating you were only 16, just kids, it's time for you to move up to a more mature man. I'm sure you meet nice reliable guys each day in college. You've got everything you could out of this relationship with this current guy.

    When guys start talking about `leaving them alone` it's cause they're not into you anymore.

  • 1 decade ago

    Why can't guys act like men instead of little boys throwing a temper tantrum?Just live your life and leave him alone,it's that simple.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Repeat after me...I must post my dating issues in Singles & Dating, as I am single and dating....

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