For those of you that are on your first marriage, ten years or less, what is your opinion on it, good or bad?

Soon to celebrate 13 years and it is going great! I would do it over and over again.

I am looking forward to the next 13 and 23 and 33 and 43 years of marriage too!

Oh, having to clarify "first marriage." Classic.

Anyway, yes, I'm in my "first marriage," and have been married 6 years. I'd give it a thumbs up:) We are still very happy. We have a nice home, good friends and family, great careers, and 5 of the best cats ever to grace the planet (or take up space on the bed).

Can't speak for other people, but we are happy.

attempt to flow jointly to marriage counseling it would be an excellent thank you to help you to to heal. Infidelity is often unfavourable, and an incredible variety of times deadly, to a marriage. the determination to end a marriage does not come that actual or that rapid. In finding out no remember if to dissolve your marriage or stay with a dishonest spouse and supply her a 2d risk, many factors could be considered. maximum folk spend weeks, months, or perhaps years, agonizing over what to do. an incredible variety of the adult adult males who make the life-changing determination to go away a dishonest substantial different on the spur of the 2d with out taking each and everything into attention, oftentimes remorseful relating to the alternative they’ve made. at times a relationship could be stored. If the cheater is particularly sorry, has severed all ties with the different oman, and is keen to artwork complicated to rebuild the broken have faith, then the cheater would be worth of a 2d risk. All her threads are basically threads. she won't anticipate alimony if she became into an offending area. think of each and every spouse who needs to go away marriage cheats on husband and then get divorce and alimony, that sound ridiculous does not. choose you good good fortune.

I've been married about 20 years (first marriage)

and it slowly but surely has gotten worse and worse

over the years, I had lots of hope that things would

get better, and I was committed to giving my kids

a mom and a dad in the same home.

now my marriage has dwindled down to a bad taste

in my mouth, but I'm stuck, for now.

we tried counseling, but the counselor met with me

separately and told me that my husband is emotionally

abusive and just basically has a toxic personality

and he couldn't figure out why I hadn't left him already...

Well...My first marriage didn't make it four weeks.

My second didn't make it six years

And my third one I am just now hitting 2 years..

So maybe when I'm 70 and I'm too old to escape a marriage..I might be able to tell you what 10 years feels like...but my guess will probably be the same as it is now....HELL!

I'm 2 1/2 years in and I think that he hid his abusive and erratic nature very well for a year and a half. Up until then, I thought it was great.

It's interesting....sometimes I think we are fine and then sometimes I think we're not. I guess the first year is all about formulating rules and boundaries that you can both work with. Oh 6 months by the way.

10 yrs or less or 11 or more ...confusing but n e way.

9 months ... im not sure it will last forever, im not happy but im content and

marriage is hard its work its not all cupcakes and balloons but then again what is?

Interesting...definitely interesting. Just barely celebrated a year, but we're hanging in there...lol.

i have been married for 3 years and it have it's ups and downs but love keep me holding on