Should I return all the gifts, love cards to cheater?

No, sending them back would just make him more bitter. Maybe send them back! But I bet destroying the cards and things would be a great catharsis. If there are good gifts I would keep them as it would be a waste. Eventually hopefully you won't associate them with him, perhaps? If you can't do that, charity shop.

Can you please anser my question, now before you say like one idiot did with the stock braindead 'you're a stalker' response, could you answer my question? I did it for a specific reason:

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=200...

hey since you have met someone else these things should have no meaning to you , You feel like you want to make a point to this guy by sending his gifts back to him, no doubt you will in close a note saying that you have met a nice guy who treats you well.. This kind of thing is all about getting even, in your case you want this guy to know that you have moved on with a new man. To be honest if i were you id just give your self the satisfaction of seeing these things go up in flames.. the flame will be like a cleaning agent for your emotions.. so get these items take emm out to the yard and burn them..

i would say its stupid to send anything back to this man. get rid of the things, but dont give them back to him. dont ever do anything that can make you appear bitter, vindictive, stalker, etc. and this sort of thing he can use against you should it get ugly. u have a new man now, so why you are still angry over this cheater, thats gonna f**k up your new relationship if you let it eat at you. how about burning everything in the fire? then forget him, for good.

Men from Rochester are really just poorly-endowed slimeballs so you shouldn't have expected any different. Don't send the stuff back. Instead, give him a small box of dog poop.

I think you should sell the gifts and trash the rest. You could give to someone who might be able to use them if you not comfortable selling it. Don't give it back as he might fool the next girl by giving it to her. Save the next victim of his cheating ways.

destroy them

sending the back is what a lovesick teenager would do, to provoke a reaction

a reaction they hope will make them love them again

if he loved you, he wouldnt have cheated

dont give him the satisfaction

move on with dignity

dont even let him see these things annoy you or that you give him 1 seconds thought

Don't be silly - he'll just laugh at it! He isn't concerned about you and won't be hurt or offended. You've met someone nice now, so just bin all the stuff and move on.

Give the books/gifts to charity, burn the cards.

Send them back, for sure. That's what I'd do. Let him know you are completely done. By sending them back he will know he fucked up, and know that you want nothing to do with him. If nothing else he will feel guilty about the situation.

Put the books on eBay and buy yourself something gorgeous. Rip the cards up, or burn them.