HELP! Is it my boyfriend or me? I don't know what to think!!?

honey RELAX!!!!!! he is a man and unfortunately porn is very important to us.

we can definitely live without it but if we have easy access then it's perfect!

these women are no threat, trust me. maybe its too much having it on the iphone and on twitter, but if he takes care of you beside all this sexual stuff then its fine, dont worry about it.

maybe you can get more involved with his sexual fantasies (if u like), talk to him, get dirty a little.

men really like that.

i know its very sad but men like porn, you just got to live with that.

It's a little late to be worrying about his orientation toward pictures of women. If this attitude of his started in the last year, then your attraction may have slipped in his eyes.

his responsibilities are growing with a second child near. This easily equates to him resisting change from how ever he perceived himself to a father and family man figure.

You guys need to have some private (no kids around) and serious discussions.

I think it depends on how it's affecting your sex lives. Does/did he just look at that then go to you to finish off? Does he spend more time looking at porn than doing romantic stuff with you? Is he aloof when you're having sex?

Sorry, it's just a bit vague. Either way, he should at least talk to you about why he needs to spend so much time looking at porn.

He is a 'horn dog' as they would say. Just talk to him about it. Ask him what you can do to help. This is normal for guys, they want sexual pleasure and such. To save your relationship. Try sitting down and talking to him about it. In a calm and stable way, don't go blurt everything out. Hope this helps, if not, I am truly and dearly sorry.

you should sit down with him and watch porn with do things you havent done with him you know,spice things up.it would help both of you in da relationship i agree with the 1st answer.role playing is really fun buy sex toys and stuff.Good luck