Can somebody show me where somebody uses freewill to "accept Christ" or be saved?

It doesn't. I've been telling people for years that it is not about US. It is, and always has been, about God. Not one human ever born (other than Jesus) can take credit for anything in their life. If you receive an award for any kind of accomplishment, you didn't accomplish it, God did. If you land the job that you've been trying to get for months and you finally get it, you didn't get that job, God did.

I don't know where the term 'free will' even came from, since I've never read it in the Bible. However, even so, free will is just a choice. You either choose God or you don't. People who I know personally that don't have God in their life, are always getting into trouble with the law, have bad things constantly happening to them, etc. When people do have God in their life, it isn't about free will. It's about needing Him.

There's different views on this....some believe that God chooses who He wants to save, long before they were born. Others are out of luck.

Another view is that God wants ALL to be saved, but that He only saves those who He knows ahead of time will accept Jesus.

Others believe that the verses about Jacob and Esau are not actually talking about them, as people, but as their tribes. Or their behaviors in the fact that Esau represents SIN, and Jacob represents Salvation.

We are saved by our faith in Jesus Christ. Yet faith without works is dead. A person cannot say...."I'm a Christian", and yet not change a thing about their lifestyle. That would be an example of "faith without works"

If you seriously want to know, please send me a note via y/a and I will have a Bible study with you.

"If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be my disciple. Whoever does not bear his own cross and come after me cannot be my disciple. For which of you, desiring to build a tower, does not first sit down and count the cost, whether he has enough to complete it? Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it begin to mock him, saying, 'This man began to build and was not able to finish.' Or what king, going out to encounter another king in war, will not sit down first and deliberate whether he is able with ten thousand to meet him who comes against him with twenty thousand? And if not, while the other is yet a great way off, he sends a delegation and asks for terms of peace. So therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple.

(Luke 14:26-33 ESV)

Friendship, no that's no longer risky....my contacts only this week helped me turn my head removed from the darkness and in the direction of the easy....that's no longer delusional in any respect, yet a certainty.

God's word here proves free will = But as many as have received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, to those who believe in His name. (John 1:12) ~ To have received Him means to associate with Him as His companion or attendant, to give Him access to yourself, to regard His power, not to refuse or reject Him, to choose Him. The word right in the NKJV I use, is power in the KJV. It also means power of choice, liberty of doing as one pleases, permission. That's our free will given to us by God to make the right choice of becoming a born again Christian.

who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God. (John 1:13) ~ God makes you into His family, born again by the Holy Spirit, through your faith in Christ's work. ~ But some people have a misunderstanding faith. I did before. Faith is not the license to sin. So receiving Jesus Christ into your life is not good enough, you must let Him make you born again by the Holy Spirit to be a child of God. Someone born again is set free from the bondage of sin.