ADVICE!!!Girlfriend problems!!!!!!ADVICE NEEDED!?

You're dating Sara, it is a betrayal to her trust and faithfulness to foster these feelings for Kenzie, you've got to make your choice, if you stick with Sara, whom you say you love, you're going to have to be honest with her and if you dump her for Kenzie you've got to bear in mind that she'll know you were willing to dump your girlfriend because you liked someone else.

My advice is get your head straight and learn to separate love and like, you can in fact have a girl who is your friend who is not your girlfriend.

I think that if you really love Sara the way you think you do then this thing with Kenzie shouldn't be an issue and you would know your answer...

However, that doesn't seem to be the case... so i think that while you love Sara, maybe you're not IN love with her? does that make sense?

When you're in a relationship with someone there's always the chance that you'll meet someone new, someone "better" the idea is that you're so happy with whoever it is that you don't want to keep on looking. Clearly, that isn't the case here... If you don't think you can let this thing with Kenzie go easily then do Sara a favour and end things. You don't want this to be something that you're always going to wonder about... but at the same time... just remember that if you break up with Sara that doesn't mean things are going to work out with Kenzie...

You gotta weigh your options dude and decide one or the other, you can't have both. Best of luck to you :)

Well, it is obvious that you like Kenzie and you just feel bad for sara so you try and make up for it. But really, it doesn't sound like underneath it all that you actually 'love sara'. And if Kenzie makes you feel that awesome then yes she is worth it. But make sure if you do end things with Sara, that you don't get straight with Kenzie, that would break her heart and make you look like a jerk to Kenzie. So just be careful how you do things.

good luck :)

YOU LIKE KENZIE.

maybe you are just a little bored and a new girl is exciting. is kenzie long term, is she special, is she different and more suited to you? it cannot be just the looks thing.

you are young things don't have to be long term and heavy. you love sara as a companion and a first gf and if you are faltering i say move on. just be careful how you do this and don't go straight to kenzie or cheat.

okay...listen i know youve heard this but im going to say it anyway...live it up...let sara know your young and you love her but you just want to have fun...life is full of girl youll like and have no idea about trust me...im 25 married and have responsablilies and my parents tried to tell me not to rush into a relationship but i did and i love him but i do wish i would have had more fun dated more lived more...dont tie yourself down because chances are you wont marry sara nor kenzie and youll look back and be glad you had fun with both...hopefully fun isnt sex because if it is scratch the fun part till your married but still date and get to know everyone and trust me girls love guys they cant tie down...so when your single the girls will want you even more...good luck

Lola Bunny Needs a Carrot!

Maybe dating sarah should come to an end as much as you dont want it to having feelings for another girl Isnt gonna go away if she makes you feel more special then you need to go out with her.

So do what u want, I know breaking up with sarah is gonna be hard and hurftul but is staying with her being truthful wen u feel for another girl?