I feel I am starting to hate the people I live with, and talking about is not working.?

I feel: there is a lot of negativity, along that this person wants me to work an 9-5 job, constantly tells me I need to do more, wants me to quit one of the jobs I love (does not come right out and say it), when i share my points and feeling they aret not valid until other people tell her the same thing. Uses words like obnoxious, inappropriate, ugly, stupid, sarcasm, and words that are not in my apparently limited vocabulary. Most of the time we fight, mainly because i feel i cannot live up to their standards.