My (ex) girlfriend has cut all ties with me, how do I contact her?

I had an ex-boyfriend act just like you, and it made me even more glad that I did, indeed, dump him. He did everything you are considering - chatting with me online under a fake name, showing up at my work at the end of my shift, calling me only to hang up when I answer. I was considering a restraining order, and I'm not a person who has that kind of overly dramatic life.

Contrary to what the movies will have you believe, when a girl says she never wants to talk to you again...she means it. Leave her alone.

If, in the future, she should ever want to talk to you again, she'll contact you. Since you were the person who misinterpreted what "hiatus" meant, you have to defer to her. If she doesn't want to talk, use this as a learning experience and move on. Don't become the creeper that convinces her the break-up was the best decision she ever made.

It's going to be pretty painful after breaking up with someone you love so much. It's inevitable that you're going to feel very down, sad and depressed. Sometimes it seems you spend every waking moment thinking about how to get your ex back. Try to visit this site in order to get the best benefit out of it https://tr.im/2hOwa

Do a simple search, and you're bound to find a plethora of information, with a whole host of different opinions, sometimes seemingly off opposing viewpoints. To focus in on something that's going to help you, the first thing you think about is establishing some common courtesy.

First off, NEVER play mind games with people. This will only get people hurt and will probably end up worsening the situation. I only mention this because naturally people are ruled by their emotions rather than thinking their actions through thoroughly. Think the situation through before doing things based on your emotions. Remember, even if you do manage to get people to do what you want, this amounts to manipulation, and however good you feel now, I guarantee it won't last very long.

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My (ex) girlfriend has cut all ties with me, how do I contact her?

She's deleted me off Facebook, blocked me on MSN, doesn't answer my calls or texts...what is the least creepy way for me to get in touch with her? I've thought about turning up when she finishes work, but that wreaks of stalking. I need some sort of closure, I don't know about her,...

just tell her how it is. like im a girl. and if my ex boyfriend was to do this to me. i guess i would actually think about the whole situation and give u a straight answer. Read here https://tr.im/FT7kf

the reason she prob doesnt respond to ur aim is either her new bf is there.. or she is just playing hard to get. all of these things is what i did to my ex boyfriend. and they work lol. he was chasing after me for 5 months (but we werent dating and we hadnt dated before) and then i played cold and yeah it got his attention. i think u should just say to her that she either loves u or she doesnt.

Give her the ultimateum...basically that u have been offered a job, but you would think it would be great to spend time with someone that u care about alot and just want to end things fun and happy.

During that time make it so unbelievable she wont want it to end.

Tell her that if she loves you that she has to break up with her boyfriend, because u cant keep going like this anymore. Just say that it is unfair on the new boyfriend, and if really did like the new boyfriend that she still wouldnt be saying that to u. Or play cold with her all the time.. dont care.. dont act like u do any way... dont respond to her things... and let her wonder what u are doing the whole summer without giving her one hint..

i say def go for the first one.. cuz the second option is just a 50/50 suicidal mission because with the first she at least gets ur aggressive i dont care side with strong points but also letting her know that u care and just want to be with her..

Haha Dude your already part stalker but ne way ya don't follow her. Really what you need to do is ignore her man Wrestling Star is right girl hate to admit it but when you treat them like crap it turns them on for some strange reason. If you really wanna get her angry talk to that girl you slept with in front of her. But the most important part is just make her think that you didn't do anything wrong (which you didn't hiatus means not dating, which means you can do whatever you want with other girls but i digress) this will make her think that maybe you didn't do ne thing wrong. Just follow Wrestling Star's advice and throw these tips in with that and you'll be golden =)

There is a reason she's your ex, she cut all ties with you for a reason, you cheated on her now pay the price, just leave her be.

You ... don't? She deleted you from her life for a reason; the closure you need is that you messed up big time (in her mind) and she's done with you. Now you need to move on with your life and not do it again. Breaks, for a girl, are not free-for-all orgies; you're supposed to take the time to think about your feelings. (Don't do breaks again because this is what happens.)

look mate you abviously upset her, shes bound to block you out of her life as you have hurt her, so right now she cant think straight so give it time...dotn keep harrassing her coz ur gna make yourself look pathetic so give it time than when the times right she'll speak to you, if not go to her directly afte she finishes work and dont stalk her or else she can get you done for harrasment etc so give it time n good luck

Postcard? With a big "I'm Sorry" or something written on the back?

But, actually, sounds like you've gotten as much closure as you're going to. She doesn't want to talk to you, sorry.

DUDE! good sign!

she is blocking you out (MOST LIKELY) because you did something bad to her, BUT she still has very strong feelings for you. If she wasn't so intensely angry at you, and instead was simply passive and not focused on you at all, she wouldnt go to that much trouble to delete you off her stuff. and if THAT was her attitude- not even worried about you at all, not focused on erasing u- that would be the WORST scenario.

as long as there is emotion left in her, it can be manipulated! as long as she still has some sort of feelings for you, they can turn into good ones (as long as they were good at one time).

again, shes probly hurt and/or annoyed/pissed at you, and wants u out of her life rite now. she THINKS shell think that forever, but she will change her mind, at least most girls do.

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1- move on

2- stop focusing on her at all and stop talking to her

3- find and flirt with other girls, and have pics on fb of u hugging other girls and show u having a good time etc etc

4- dont add her, follow her to work, etc etc

5- seem like a good guy in the meantime! if u get a rep of being a better guy, and being a ladys man without being a d*ck to any particular girl... your ex is gonna get jealous and also might start to think to herself "wow hes a great guy now! wtf did i miss? im so stupid!" and she migth wanna get u back.

SO TRY THAT.

if in 6 months she hasn't contacted you, THEN you should just add her on facebook one day- frined request her haha. showing up at work is too creepy. if u wanna get her back and she hasnt contacted u, just do the facebook add. the worst she can do is "ughh no". she wont like think 2 badly of u- ur just tryna add an old friend/girlfriend and adding someone takes 5 seconds, so she wont really think ur desperate or nothing. btw it worked for me one time actually =) the ignoring method ALWAYS works, except one time she never contacted me. then the facebook add worked haha, just like i reasoned it would! =)

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good luck! =) and when u finally see her in person or on FB chat, DO NOT BRING UP THE INCIDENT.

if SHE chooses to bring it up, seem deeply sorry BUT dont seem desperate. be like "haha yeahh that was suchh an immature thing to do, but its whatever its way in the past. plus the only reason i did it was cuz i didnt reallyyy want that break haha"

and then if she gets offended at u not really apologizing that much, just playfully be like "wow i didnt really know u still had such strong feelings for that and for me?" and that will get her THINKING. she'll realize *gasp* she DOES still want you!

but by and large, try and make the convo light and funny and casual. THINK BACK TO THE BEGINNING: WHEN U MET HER, WAS IT SERIOUS? NO! IT WAS FUN, FLIRTY, AND CASUAL... CORRECT?

well if u are gonna repair a broken relationship, u gotta start from the foundation, the ground up. so don't try and get all romantic when she still is trying to convince herself that she does and should hate ur guts. be light and funny, flirty, playful, teasing, and EXCITING. win her OVER AGAIN! and then when u guys finally go on a date, totally blow her away and be the funnest guy u can be.

and NO TIME during this should u seem pressed on her! remember: u guys are OVER. and u should talk to her with the state of mind that you are simply talking/flirting with a random girl and its totally casual and uninportant. u dont wanna get too much pressure or say nething too deep rite then. that will scare her and push u guys apart