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Why does she talk sex but no action?

If a woman says that she wants to have sex with you repeatedly over a long period of time, is it reasonable to expect her to do it when the oportunity arises? She always has a different excuse for not wanting to do it. I know shes not shy or inexperienced because she has kids from diffferent men already.

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  • Mez
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Sounds like shes a bit of a flirt. When does she tell you she wants to have sex with you? Is it in person or on the phone?

    Next time your are in an appropriate place & time to have sex, you bring the subject up or just start kissing and touching her & if she pushes you away then you know she was just all talk & no action, but i'd be asking her why she's been leading you on?

    It's really hard to say why she's doing this to you but try what i said if you get the chance & at least you might find out once and for all where you stand! Good luck!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    She's a flirt. Nothing wrong with that, except you have different expectations. She probably wants to be one of the guys without the concerns of more kids. With the variety of non committal men she's known...She has a lot more to lose, you know. Would YOU want to be left raising a kid without support and $$$ from the deadbeats?

  • 1 decade ago

    it seems to me she is sending you mixed signals.

    Guys tend to do that to girls a lot too and that's what makes us go crazy...

    that's why typically girls go for the "bad boy"

    she wants you, but wants to make you jealous, so you'll see other guys long for her too.

    maybe she has just gotten used to being hurt that she decided to start dating like a guy.

    What might be best for you, if you want an actual relationship w/ this girl. Your going to have to get her to put her wall down emotionally or wait till she is emotionally available.

    if you just want to make a sexy time with her... then try making her jealous by calling her and canceling at the last minute, not call her for a few days, be seen with other girls in front of her.

  • 1 decade ago

    I guess she enjoys the talk but not the sex, I have no idea why. Nerves? Whatever dont waste time if you want sex and she doesnt

  • 1 decade ago

    Might be that she just enjoys flirting with you and talking dirty with you but isn't actually attracted enough to you to sleep with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Next time when she talks dirty - start touching her. If she slaps you, then she's all talk, no action.

    Otherwise, it's your lucky day.

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