Yet another bad customer service experience?

I totally agree with you. Most Customer Service places Sucks. It is getting worse and worse, people does not care about one another anymore. Keep on doing what you are doing and please be patient. Last night I was surprised and shocked when I received Excellent Customer Service: One of my friends called in a order at a Local Mexican Rest., I wanted to pick up the order, so I was freezing, it was 32 degrees at the window and they could not find my To Go order, they checked, still no order, I waited for 15 min., they took my order and they gave it to me free!! I wished them a Happy New Year!! So being nice and patient does win, plus you win in the end :)

The language you use in your details; "put these associates in their place", "ghetto", "low class", "redneck", "I'm not unattractive, and I dont shop at cheap ghetto places" could be a clue as to why your boyfriend has better experiences with people than you seem to experience. Your use of slang words like "conversate" makes you seem fairly young; so maybe the clerks you've encountered don't treat younger people with a lot of respect. While everyone deserves good service when shopping; it sure looks to me like you are quick to take offense. Since you've already complained about the behavior you object to then you only have two choices: continue to shop at these places and be just as polite as you can (show them the behavior you expect them to show you), or shop some place else (take your business elsewhere, it is not your job to manage the store's employees).

one time at Shari's (a Northwest chain similar to Denny's) I've asked my server politely that if she had a moment could she get me a refill on my lemonade and she just flat out yelled at me and copped an attitude at me and my face immediately turned red! I could swear I could hear fumes coming out of my ears, then when she gives me my lemonade she had the nerve to get in my face and tell me she don't like it when people are bothering her while she's helping other patrons but I've waited until when she was done, I just didn't want to be ignored cause she was walking by me not even paying attention to me, I was too embarrassed and upset to even report her to the management and even thought I've deserved getting yelled at for "bothering" her I later found out she'd gotten fired from Shari's and she also got her children taken away from her from the CPS and later turned out to be a crackhead

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I,m just pleased you don,t use the same shops as me my friend.

This seems like your fault. stop trying to get peoples fired. it's easy to tell there is more to this story then you are saying. I would like to hear their side to this. because how do we know you are not making this up to make these store chains look like the bad guys? when most of these stores has good Customer Service themselves.