Another question for the married ladies..?

I love to express my sexual side in the company of men. Not that I have ever been or ever would be close to having an affair or anything...women are just not as fun and loose about certain kinds of things. And anyway it's not as fun with a woman. I really don't think it means she is doing anything unseemly. I do think you should bring it out in the open though. Let her know you know and that you want to make sure she is not sneaking behind your back...but that she does have limitations as a married woman and as a mature adult.

I'm pretty comfortable with my sexuality and freely speak about it with my male friends but i draw the line with married friends. maybe a couple jokes here or there but nothing that i wouldn't want my significant other to partake in.

Let's put it this way. In the first few months of my marriage I found similar texts on my husbands phone and both parties said they were harmless. Even something about how they feel as tight as siblings. Anyway three years later they're having a six month affair and my daughter and I are left homeless.

What i'm trying to say is deal with it now. tell her how you don't appreciate it. It's very inappropriate and disrespectful to you especially when you express your dislike of it.

Good Luck!!

Innocent flirting happens all the time between the sexes. It's normal, however, inappropriate conversation is inappropriate. Period! It wouldn't be ok for her to be flirting or talking to other men like this if she was standing in front of you would it? Then it's not online either. This is not a difficult concept. People need to stop making excuses for ridiculous cheating behavior just because it's online. It may not mean she is having an affair with this guy but it certainly is opening the door for it. And in answer to your question, women (or men) who respect their spouse don't talk like this to the opposite sex.

I'm married and I've never fantasied any naughty things with any of my friend especially guy I think it'll offend my Husband and I wouldn't like it if he did the same. Sometimes it start from funny text but it may go further if you didn't confront her so the best thing you do is talk to your wife, you guys are married if she needs some fantasied texting she can text to you while you're not home or something, it works for me and my husband... sometimes we leave some naughty text to each other make us wanna get home sooner! Good luck.

Absolutely not.. I'm confident in myself but I do not and would not text sexual comments or thoughts to any of my male friends. I kinky text my husband and that's all- if your wife will do that on text it may move to the next level- don't put up with it!!

You know the answer to this already. Fantasizing is one thing, but texting and flirting (to be one of the guys?!) is just wrong.

I would say Yes they do flirt around. Just for fun but baseless and don't mean it. I would suggest go with your guts but if your love is strong then don't forget about that.

Dangerous flirting. Flirting is the promise of sex without the guarantee.

No...my husband and I don't even have opposite sex friends that the other one isn't friends with also. Anything "sexual" should be reserved for a woman's husband and ONLY HIM.

No it's not right. That is very inappropriate for her to do such things. stop it now before it goes too far. If you did that she would swear to God you were cheating.