how do i tell him how i feel without sounding two childish?

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i met this man just before xmas he was staying in my town for a week and we saw each other for the first 3 days and due to work we didn't get to see each other for the rest... he basically wanted sex i told him no and he said he would still like to get to know me

since then he hasn't contacted me once but i used to ring him ever so often... i haven't rang him in about 3 weeks now tho

but basically i really like him for some very unknown reason and even thought hes kinda of ignored me i think he likes me 2 but hes too much of the typical "player" to show his feeling. 

i want to tell him that i do like him (not love or any think like that) and that i want to get to know him better but this has too be a two way thing and not just me contacting him all the time. but i dont want him to think that i love him or something like that jsut that i think it would be great to at least give it at go :)

im 17 hes 24

liz · Accepted Answer

Listen this guy has made it plain he only wants you for sex, in fact any woman that gives it to him is what he is looking for. He does not want romance and he does not want you to tell him how you feel, too many girls have done that already and they have got nowhere.
Leave him alone and let him sh*g himself to victory, if he were interested in lil ol' you then he would have contacted you by now. This guy is out to sleep with as many girls as he can and you aint one of them are you ?

EllenMay · Answer

I think that you are making a big mistake by contacting this guy and persisting as you are.

Firstly he's made it clear that he wants sex from you.  Then he hasn't contacted you (or once).  then he has ignored you.  Then you are assuming that he likes you.  Then you say he is a 'player'.

He has told you he wants sex and so if you have any kind of relationship with this guy it isn't because he likes your baby blue eyes, it is for sex.  I am sorry to be brutal but where exactly do you think this relationship is going to lead?  Do you think he is going to love you forever, and offer you marriage, after all of the above?  I doubt it.  Forget him and move on to someone who wants you for more than just sex and who is able to ring you back and do everything this guy clearly has no interest in doing.  Sorry to be frank but I think you are well on the road to seriously being hurt if you carry on knocking at this particular door.

Anonymous · Answer

Oh move on...his shagging the next teenager in the next town.

You are worth more than some player.....go find a nice guy, who will respect you :)

Or even better, go have some fun with your girlfriends....you're only young once, and it's over in a flash

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