Are other married couples having extreme drama & crisis going on in their lives...besides me?

I agree. Something weird is going on. lol

But I hope through it all we will be closer. Loyalty, forgiveness and not listening to others opinions of your relationship helps immensely.

It never ceases to amaze me how people say they won't put up with this or that only to find out what they DO put up with. What is comfortable for some may not be for another and as long as we live our lives according to what we can handle, no one else or their opinions will matter.

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Are other married couples having extreme drama & crisis going on in their lives...besides me?

Something weird is going on. There has been so much drama and crisis......more than normal for my husband and I. Other couples we know are having a really rough crisis time.

I am starting to answer my phone with "Crisis Center....how can I help you?"....LOL

Are there others on Y/A...

We used to have drama, our first year of marriage. Now all is right with the world and has been for over a year. Yay!!! for no drama.

Ah I am in the same boat with you and what Im beginning to notice is that alot of our unnecessary arguments are due to stress from busy work schedules, finacial issues, and lack of quality time together. Other couples I know including myself are just like you, so first off..you need not fret because you are NOT alone.

Unfortuantely, I dont have some great advice to fix your dramas, afterall they come with the marriage. Instead, its rather something you just deal with and let things fix themselves naturally and on their own. Every couple goes through a draught where you fight a little more than usual, but its a phase and it will pass. Sure it sucks now and it seems like its hurting, but when things do eventually clear up, you will feel much closer and that is only thing I can guarantee. So in the meantime, stay calm, try to relax or even try planning a nice, inexpensive day for just you and him. A little goes a long way. Good luck.

Yeah, I see the same thing. It is like the world has gone mad. Even in my life, I have so much going on that I can hardly keep up. We have 5 children and I am the primary source of income. We are remodeling our home and than there is all the outside dramas of friends and family.

Thank God, my husband and I talk and do not blame each other for what is going on around us. We deal with what we can. Pick your battles carefully. Some battles and drama aren't worth even thinking about. And outsiders dramas can really drain your energy where you and your husband have no time or energy to reconnect or have quality time together.

You need to put your foot down and put down boundaries so that both of you know when to say no to those who demand so much from you.

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My husband was diagnosed with bipolar a year ago. Then his company went into bankruptcy. We had already been struggling finacially for a year. It is not bringing us closer. I face problems head on and he waits until they get bigger. These aren't very compatible positions. Mostly I can laugh about it, but when he flips out I find it hard to keep my cool. grr

My marriage is over too. I think it broke under too much negativity around us. I have heard of this "planet alignment" thing... It's weird... I'm sick of it. Right now, I'm just trying to be happy, and hopefully, one day, to meet Mr.Right. Tired of the phonies... Sorry, I sound a little negative right now... It's only been recently that my marriage ended -- it was for the best, but I'm still hurting real bad...

Just found out that my "so called wonderful, man of my dreams" husband who was living with me in the "marriage everyone wanted" and who "hated people who cheat" and "promised he would never do something like that" has been fooling around with my best (ex best) friend behind my back... ok, not exactly, RIGHT IN MY OWN HOME under my nose... when I would use the restroom or after I went to bed....

The furthest and absolute LAST thing I EVER expected to happen in my marriage... Yeaha, I'd say something weird is going on.

Yep, it's great. I just like to hold it all in until I have a mental break down. This usually happens once every two to three months.