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How would you feel if ur mom did this / Am I wrong 4 feeling this way?
Ok im a singer/song writter its my life. Anyway I wrote my mom a song for her birthday nd went up to her job nd sang for her in front of her co-workers nd everything (Her boss said it was ok) She loved it as did everyone else. Her boss really loved it nd asked me if i could sing it in one of there buissnes commercial i was so happy. Then my mom told her no i couldnt. So i guess my question is why would my mom do that she my dream was to make it big so why would she get in my way. Why would she say no.I asked her why nd she said i wrote it for her so it should be her choice. Am i wrong for being mad @ her please let me kno
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- olderwiser100aLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
this is a tricky one. i can see both of your points, maybe hers to a lesser degree, but both of you certainly have valid reasons for either putting the song into a commercial, or not doing so. your point is good. this is your dream, and this may be a jump start to getting your career going. key word is may, it certainly is not guaranteed that if your song goes public it would set you up for life. there is always the possibility that it would of course. from your mom's side, i can see her holding onto it as you did write it solely for her. not certain why though she wouldn't want to aid in your success. perhaps talking more to her about it will help resolve the issue. once she knows how extremely important this is to you, and once she sees that in fact it would promote you as a singer/songwriter, she might be more inclined to let go of it.
- wybleLv 45 years ago
Its incorrect on her area to barge into your place. you ought to enable her comprehend that its your place now, and you run the instruct. yet although, you ought to deal along with your month-to-month $4 hundred like countless different finance. What might ensue in case you have been previous due paying a distinctive bill? attempt and do your area to maintain different costs down. do no longer turn lights on in case you do no longer prefer them, maybe cut back your showers to 10 minutes. If the $4 hundred funds continues to be too lots, make the cheap. good success with all of this, and study your self fortunate to stay in an incredible homestead for basically $4 hundred a month! :)
- 1 decade ago
your mom was probably thinking since you made it for her why do you want to share it with the whole world. you are not wrong for feeling this way but why don't you ask the boss if you can make a different song for the commercial?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think she's a bit upset that something that was written especially for her - celebrating her, has now become all about you.
I don't know - maybe you do a million selfless things for your mum every day... but if you don't - and this song was a one-off... why not keep it pure?
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- 1 decade ago
well i dont think that you should be mad at her i mean you made it for her right? she is probably thinkin that scence you made it for her she wants it to stay for only her and not everyone else but if i was you i would probably be mad as well and all because i know the fact that you really like to sing =)
Source(s): ~♥~Sierra~♥~ - Anonymous1 decade ago
Talk to her and ask her politely to explain why. Make sure she knows it is still her special song, but this is a BIG opportunity for you and you dont want to loose it.
- bopdaddyLv 71 decade ago
your mom considers this hers because you wrote it for her but you still own it
Explain that this could be your key to entering the job market that you love and she should be proud of you and be wishing you the most success
- jnjmommyLv 61 decade ago
Wow that is pretty sh**ty of her. But your asking us why she did that so it is pretty clear you didnt talk to her. Do so.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
your mom said it. you wrote it for her. so it is spcial to ur mom ok?? laker65020@yahoo.com
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